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John Marston
August 14th, 2008, 11:36 PM
well i have this friend and he and i are really close so yes we have tried experimenting(masterbation together, masterbating each other and thats it) but one time he said do u wanna try masterbating each other i said nah and he said "come on please". i didnt say anything and he didn't ask again that nite(or any other nites) he has a girlfriend so im getting mixed signals. any thoughts

iceyfresh
August 14th, 2008, 11:39 PM
well first of all dont ever do something your uncomfortable and are you worried you arent going to be friends anymore because you could just say your not in to that kind of stuff but you want to remain friends.

MilkDud
August 15th, 2008, 01:41 AM
well you have to say your sorrry that you didnt say yes to him
and if you want it then you have to tell him
but ifyou dont then you so have to tell him that your not into it any more and that you still want to stay friends

byee
August 15th, 2008, 08:58 AM
Actually, you're getting a very clear signal: He interpreted your saying no to his suggestion that you do not want to do this, so he's not asking anymore.

xbox360guy
August 15th, 2008, 10:45 AM
You should tell him you don't feel comfortable doing that (if that is the reason) and he should understand if you are good friends...

Zan0ra
August 15th, 2008, 12:09 PM
Well dont let people push you into doing something your not comfortable with *you didn't, but i'm just saying* I'm sure your friend is just curios and doesn't want anything like that to do with you. But i wouldn't assume anything at 13.

homerallii1
August 15th, 2008, 07:44 PM
Ask him in a joking manner why he wanted to do that so badly... Then determine what he means. Or just flat out ask him, "We're just friends right? Nothing else?" either way be supportive.

lolboi06
August 15th, 2008, 08:00 PM
yeah i agree with them u should tell him how u feel. if u tell him no then he should understand because he are close friends with him

Neverender
August 18th, 2008, 06:22 AM
he gets the point that you don't feel comferterble doing this and should respect that.
he was probably just really horny.

stotty
August 18th, 2008, 07:17 AM
just go with your gut feeling. Only do things that you are comfortable with

Requin
August 18th, 2008, 08:15 AM
If you don't feel like doing something. Then don't do it!
It could affect your friendship if you had done it, but it seems that it might of done anyway.

NO it seems fine, he's just curious and wants to do it with you becasue he feels comfortable with you. He would only of asked you if you were a close friend.
And just apologise and say you understand or something similar to that.
You might want to do it with him eventually, you never know.

TurboDieselBandit
December 5th, 2008, 10:36 PM
It is very common and your friend has feelings like a lot of us, including me. You don't ever have to do any thing you are not comfortable with, but out of curiosity and generosity I think you should give him a shot at it at least one time and who knows you just might like it. I know I did.....LOL

DjDream
December 8th, 2008, 02:00 AM
Dude, don't worry. If he wants to do it then just do it, I mean who cares if he has a girlfriend. Remember, Bros before hoes.

Archer600
December 13th, 2008, 11:50 PM
If u don't want to then don't but me and my best friend do that all the time and he has a girlfriend