When?

[BlackenedSilver]

I have been going out with my Bf for almost 4 weeks now but we havnt kissed yet, and the conversation seems to be dying slowly.
We are having more awkward silences and when its comes to saying bye he seems to be making excuses not to kiss me!
I have no idea why this is happening, and I keep thinking that the relationship is going to end soon but I really dont want it to!! Help please!!
:confused:

[Ryandel]

The best thing to do is ask him personally. You would gain more thought and a bit more comfort by asking him directly. You did the right thing by observing the changes in the relationship. For this will help you know what to talk about with him. As for the no-kissing part. I've had the same experiences before.

Here are some reasons:
-Some may feel it's still early for any contact (Odd yes, but very common)
-He may be having second thoughts on things
-Parental restrictions?
-etc.

I hope all goes well for you. You seem like a great girl. For you're worried about your relationships state. Best wishes to you.
-Alex D

[byee]

The best thing to do is ask him personally. You would gain more thought and a bit more comfort by asking him directly. You did the right thing by observing the changes in the relationship. For this will help you know what to talk about with him. As for the no-kissing part. I've had the same experiences before.

Here are some reasons:
-Some may feel it's still early for any contact (Odd yes, but very common)
-He may be having second thoughts on things
-Parental restrictions?
-etc.

I hope all goes well for you. You seem like a great girl. For you're worried about your relationships state. Best wishes to you.
-Alex D


Oh, Geeennnniiiiiuuuussss, Alex! Way to go!

You're noticing something you don't like or understand. Best to ask him about it, just be careful not to make it sound accusatory.

[Close102]

next time you say goodbye just kiss him and see how he reacts. if he kisses back then you have nothing to worry about. if he doesnt then next time you see him ask him why he didnt kiss you back.