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sXe Penguin
August 13th, 2008, 02:19 PM
3 really hot girls came upto my door today asking me to hang out, I made up some story about I couldn't because my mom wanted me to do something, so they are coming back tomorrow, I'm nervous about it because 1 I've never seen them before, 2, after I moved about a year ago I've been homeschooled so I really haven't been out with girls much so I'm nervous, what should I do? And if I should go what can I do to prevent making a fucking retard out of myself? They are 1 year younger than me (they are 14 I'm 15)
Dolphus Raymond
August 13th, 2008, 02:29 PM
I'm a little confused about the situation to offer advice. How do these girls know you exist? Why do they want in your house?
sXe Penguin
August 13th, 2008, 02:32 PM
Wait what?
Dolphus Raymond
August 13th, 2008, 02:33 PM
Well, like, did they just pick a random house and decide to ask to come in? How do they know who you are?
I mean, if a bunch of girls came up to my house and said "can we come in?"...I'd be a little cautious.
sXe Penguin
August 13th, 2008, 02:35 PM
I was taking in groceries and they yelled something to me from down the street, about 20 minutes later they came upto the door asking me if I wanted to hang out, they wanted me to go with them
ThatCanadianGuy
August 13th, 2008, 02:39 PM
Um.... SWEET!!!
They're hot.... okay totally "guy-ish" perspective but I'd totally go for it! At the very least you could try to have a good time with them; just hang out like you've known them for years. When you need to find something to talk about, just ASK them about themselves (we KNOW ok, girls DO like to talk about themselves whether they deny it or not! :D).
Have fun, relax, and be yourself! The only way you could ever "screw up" is if you worry too much about screwing up in the first place! :D
Axellance
August 13th, 2008, 04:52 PM
I beleve this should go in relationships and dating, not puberty.
Whisper
August 13th, 2008, 05:14 PM
I beleve this should go in relationships and dating, not puberty.
Thats for the report but next time just stick to that don't make a post
thanks man
MOVING
Close102
August 13th, 2008, 06:05 PM
just dont think of it as a date is the best advice i can give you. and yes i agree girls do like talking about themselves so go with what they like.
byee
August 13th, 2008, 10:08 PM
I understand! They noticed you and obviously were attracted to you, so they came knocking! Eventhough you might not get around much for them to notice, they obviously noticed you, it doesn't take much.
First, you might want to check this out and make sure it's OK with your folks.
Since you don't know them and are (justifiably) a bit nervous, do something really low key and easy, a walk, ice cream, etc. Don't worry about 'blowing it', they're attracted to you already, so there's little chance of outright rejection. Just relax, and go with the flow, follow the convo, and if you don't know what to say, smile a lot, and laugh, so it seems that you're following along.
When people first make friends with eachother, very often there's not such great convo, it's more about just being together and getting used to eachother. Besides, you have to listen for a while to figure out what to talk about, anyway.
Try to relax, be yourself, smile, and if you can ask them some questions about themselves, maybe compliment them, it will go fine.
Close102
August 14th, 2008, 10:37 AM
I understand! They noticed you and obviously were attracted to you, so they came knocking! Eventhough you might not get around much for them to notice, they obviously noticed you, it doesn't take much.
First, you might want to check this out and make sure it's OK with your folks.
Since you don't know them and are (justifiably) a bit nervous, do something really low key and easy, a walk, ice cream, etc. Don't worry about 'blowing it', they're attracted to you already, so there's little chance of outright rejection. Just relax, and go with the flow, follow the convo, and if you don't know what to say, smile a lot, and laugh, so it seems that you're following along.
When people first make friends with eachother, very often there's not such great convo, it's more about just being together and getting used to eachother. Besides, you have to listen for a while to figure out what to talk about, anyway.
Try to relax, be yourself, smile, and if you can ask them some questions about themselves, maybe compliment them, it will go fine.
excellent advice.
if they noticed you from down the street then yes they probably are attracted to you. or they were really bored and wanted to make you screw up.
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