dad, why are you such a dickhead?

[Yasmine]

my dad could use a little common sense onece in a while, but he's too busy haying the fields, and working at the farm market. i wish he wasn't such an idiot. i can't find a word to phrase it nicer. he's dumb. he doesn't know how to treat me, and he's always talking to me in ways i don't appreciate. maybe he gets it from his dad. men, can't live with them, can't shoot them.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

men cant live with them cant shoot at them, yeah funny i like that one ;)

[Rutherford The Brave]

Look at it this way atleast he couldn't be worse. My father blamed me and screamed at me when I was 5 because it is apparently my fault the man that killed my mother got behind the wheel drunk. He used to lash out at me, and hit me soo dam hard. You want to know what I did 4 days ago when he asked me to come back to him. He laughed and gave me a little punch on the shoulder. I punched him in the face and said "That's for all the dam times you hit me." Admittedly not the greatest of ideas but seeing his lip split open was just vengeance and a half. Now, I'm not saying take that course of action. But stand up for what you believe in.

[Yasmine]

Look at it this way atleast he couldn't be worse. My father blamed me and screamed at me when I was 5 because it is apparently my fault the man that killed my mother got behind the wheel drunk. He used to lash out at me, and hit me soo dam hard. You want to know what I did 4 days ago when he asked me to come back to him. He laughed and gave me a little punch on the shoulder. I punched him in the face and said "That's for all the dam times you hit me." Admittedly not the greatest of ideas but seeing his lip split open was just vengeance and a half. Now, I'm not saying take that course of action. But stand up for what you believe in.

that's horrible. my dad's not that bad, but he verbally gets to me. if you were only 5, you have no control over what happens. 5 year olds require alot of attention. your dad is the one who ejaculated you anyway. if he wasn't ready to have a kid in the picture, it's really his fault.

i got that from a key ring, axel :)

[Zephyr]

Dads... they are definitely like aliens from space sometimes.
Whenever my dad talks to me in certain ways that I don't appreciate,
I just let him know straight up, and he stops.

Just tell him next time, "I really don't appreciate how you go about talking to me. Could you please just talk to me like I'm a normal person?"

Or something to that extent that fits your situation better. Make sure you're calm but firm about it so that he knows that you mean it.

[japanman]

I think its sorta the same for men only for moms cept the only thing that kinda creeps me out is when my mom trys to teach about "periods" and "special things" that invole "sexual thiings or sexual organs" and its just plain uncomfortable i mean id rather learn from how to .com or google

[MrPinnick17]

I just don't talk to my dad that much anymore. Don't let this happen to you.
I hate it how I just use him for money now. I love him and all but it seems like that's all he's good for. Recently he got sick and was hospitalized I found myself worrying more about how we were going to make it financially if he died, then what I was going to do without him in my life. It was a wake up call and I'm slowly re-kindling our relationship. Just don't let things drift so far apart they are unfixable. I'm sure your dad loves you, but I'm 17 and I find it hard to relate to children let alone younger girls.

Maybe talk to him about it, your growing up in practically different worlds. But then again all dads are different, and it might seem like it's just the way he is. Maybe he's showing that he cares in loves for you by going to work at the market so much so he can support you and give you a nice life. Maybe seriously if he's saying stuff that hurts you that bad, then have a heart to heart and tell him NOT to speak to you the way he is anymore.