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thesphinx
August 7th, 2008, 04:02 PM
So I have a friend that I want to ask on a date but I just can't seem to find the right time to ask her.
I am starting to think asking her on a date would be better over the phone because when ever I see her we're in a group and its kind of hard.
I don't like the idea of asking someone on a date over the phone because it seems less personal and I would rather ask her face to face but I just can't find the time.
I've never asked someone out over the phone how do you think I should go about it?
What do you think?
-Thanks

Sapphire
August 7th, 2008, 04:08 PM
It doesn't have to be as hard as you seem to think it is. Just pull her aside one day and ask her straight out. You're only asking her out, it doesn't have to be picture perfect.

thesphinx
August 7th, 2008, 04:13 PM
I know its just I really don't see her that often and when I do it isn't as easy as pulling her aside.
EDIT
And Honestly I don't want to wait to next time I see her :D

Sapphire
August 7th, 2008, 04:18 PM
Ok. Phone her up and ask her out somewhere. I would reccommend having something in mind like going bowling or out for a drink.

thesphinx
August 7th, 2008, 04:32 PM
Yeah I think I will try that.

optimashprime
August 8th, 2008, 01:19 PM
if uve not asked her yet

do it anyway YOU want to what ever makes you feel more comfortable

if uve have

how did it go

byee
August 8th, 2008, 09:57 PM
Michael! This is great news! She's a lucky lass.

Assuming you have a relationship/friendship with her already and you talk with her on the phone already, the next time you're chatting, at the end tell her that you really enjoyed chatting with her, and you'd like to get together for a pizza/movie/whatever on *some* day (fill in the blank with 2 choices).

It's not such a big deal if you make it a natural part of the convo and avoid the 'heavy' word 'DATE'.

and i expect all the details the day after!

Good luck

Sam