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WMDQZV
August 7th, 2008, 09:42 AM
I think this is the right section.:confused:
I feel really uncomfortable asking these things, but I knew I had to ask someone eventually.

Ok I have a few questions:\

FIrst, I started puberty when I wsd 12 I think, i'm 13 now almost 14 and I have lots of hair down there, and underarm hair. My voice has started to crack, but only a little. At what age does that usually drasticly change cause I hate being called m'am on the phone XD

Second, I have a question about my sexuality; I find myself sometimes looking at mens crotches, but just as much or even more looking at women. I have fantasies about women, but sometimes for no apparent reason, with men, am I gay?

And finally this is more of a health question, when I finish after beating off, cum definitly comes out, but then 30 minutes later or so randomly more comes out, am I normal?

I know these are weird questions, but I need answers.

Thanks,
Alex

Hippie
August 7th, 2008, 09:55 AM
FIrst, I started puberty when I wsd 12 I think, i'm 13 now almost 14 and I have lots of hair down there, and underarm hair. My voice has started to crack, but only a little. At what age does that usually drasticly change cause I hate being called m'am on the phone XD

Everyone's different, I'm 14 and my voice is fairly deep. But that's just me, I have a friend who's 16 and his voice is still very high.

Second, I have a question about my sexuality; I find myself sometimes looking at mens crotches, but just as much or even more looking at women. I have fantasies about women, but sometimes for no apparent reason, with men, am I gay?

During puberty hormones go crazy, it's perfectly normal. Only you can know your sexuality.

And finally this is more of a health question, when I finish after beating off, cum definitly comes out, but then 30 minutes later or so randomly more comes out, am I normal?

I have them same thing sometimes. It just means it all hasen't came out.


Hippie

WMDQZV
August 7th, 2008, 01:13 PM
I feel straight and I see myself in the future with a girl, but the horomones are confusing me.

Rutherford The Brave
August 7th, 2008, 02:48 PM
They confuse everyone, thats just what they do :)

mr.sexy_bomb
August 7th, 2008, 03:30 PM
yeah so just wait till u r done with puberty :D

pontiacdriver
August 7th, 2008, 09:42 PM
I think this is the right section.:confused:
I feel really uncomfortable asking these things, but I knew I had to ask someone eventually.

Ok I have a few questions:\

FIrst, I started puberty when I wsd 12 I think, i'm 13 now almost 14 and I have lots of hair down there, and underarm hair. My voice has started to crack, but only a little. At what age does that usually drasticly change cause I hate being called m'am on the phone XD

Second, I have a question about my sexuality; I find myself sometimes looking at mens crotches, but just as much or even more looking at women. I have fantasies about women, but sometimes for no apparent reason, with men, am I gay?

And finally this is more of a health question, when I finish after beating off, cum definitly comes out, but then 30 minutes later or so randomly more comes out, am I normal?

I know these are weird questions, but I need answers.

Thanks,
Alex

Your questions are totally reasonable, and they definitely deserve answers. In response to your post:

Voice -

It is really hard to predict how voice change will happen as voice change is very different for everyone. Some folks have very gradual voice changes while other folks have drastic changes. It can be hard on your ego when folks mix you up for a girl, but don't get too bent out of shape as you should understand the other person's perspective. After all, most of the time when we hear a high pitched voice our first guess that the person is a female. Your voice issue is going to be temporary, and don't fret about your high pitch for now. Give yourself a couple of months, and I am sure by Christmas your voice will be much deeper than it is now.

Crotches -

As part of puberty you are going to be self-conscious about your body, and you are going to be curious on how your development is in relation to other people. Your looking at other male crotches is not a sign that you are interested in them in a sexual way but rather you are curious as to how other guys are "down there" in relation to you. It is totally normal to be curious about the male body as you want to make sure that you are normal. Also, you need to keep in mind that many times when you see an attribute on another male that you really like, such as body hair, big penis, etc., you might find yourself drawn to such things not because you want to have sex with the guy or have homosexual feelings but rather you wish to have those attributes on yourself which is why you like look at those things. Long story short, I doubt you are gay (there is nothing wrong with being gay on a side note), and you are just curious and nothing more.

Cum-

What you are describing is totally normal, and it does happen to a lot of guys. Chances are you did not fully expell your semen during your ejaculation, and your body is simply getting rid of an extra semen from your urethra. No worries as you are fine.

WMDQZV
August 8th, 2008, 03:09 PM
Thanks again.

homerallii1
August 8th, 2008, 03:48 PM
Voice-
Okay, This happens to me too... "how may i help you ma'am?"... I get that all the time. Since your voice has cracked you are surely on the way through puberty, The voice will develop. But many men just naturally have high voices.

Sexuality-
Hormones mess everyone up. You may be straight, or you may be gay, either sexual preference is okay. Your sexuality can only be determined by you. Many men sneak a peek in the washroom/locker room... So i wouldnt worry about that aspect.

Cum-
Yes, That is completely normal


Hoped this helped you out a bit

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