View Full Version : Girl Trouble, Help?
skhuaban
August 6th, 2008, 08:56 PM
So theres this girl and she's been like my best friend for ever (well not really only for lik 4 or 5 years but you get the point) and we hang out like everyday and we can talk about anything, no really anything, we've even seen eachother naked. so i have always really liked her and she knows it. but it has been like a year since weve talked about us dating so i asked her and she said "your a great guy and i love you, but when i meat someone i know if they'll be friends or more than friends, and when i met you i only felt friends" but she's never had a boy friend and never even kissed and shes almost 16. honestly i couldnt think of a better guy for her(but of course im bias) and neither could my friends... what can i do, i want more... I personally think she wants more but is scared, but i really dont know thats alwaays been the only touchy subject in our relationship
PrLatino93
August 6th, 2008, 09:06 PM
if she said she only saw you as a friend, you have to accept it. to see if her feelings have changed, bring it up in a conversation again. if she still doesn't see you as a friend, try to find someone else to like because she might feel a little awkward if you like her and than your friendship can get a little awkward, too.
mr.sexy_bomb
August 6th, 2008, 09:54 PM
if she said she likes u as a friend i think the best thing 2 do is just accept wut she think is best 4 her :) sorry i guess
Never_Forget
August 6th, 2008, 10:53 PM
If you really care about her you'll respect her opinions and not try to force her into a relationship.
On the other hand, you could see if she likes you? There was a WikiHow about this.. one moment...
Sorry. I took a while there. I kept bumping into the others I'd been reading. Such as how to survive a nuclear attack.. ANYWAY
http://www.wikihow.com/Tell-when-You-Are-a-Guy-and-Another-Guy-Likes-You
YES it's for guy+guy but that doesn't mean it won't work for girls. Just don't take it as seriously as you would for a guy. Girls are more cuddly and stuff anyway. They'll be more open to it.
skhuaban
August 7th, 2008, 12:07 AM
ok so most of the things in that wiki guide have happened and it all points to that she likes me, i mean we totally act like boyfriend girlfriend, everyone that sees us says oo are you guys going out , we cuddle whenever, and even her friends think she likes me. but no matter what she denies i, its confusing and i do accept it because she is also my best friend and i love her, but in a i would do anything for her kinda way. but whatever thanks for the help its kinda reinstating what i think.... kinda depressing. women drive me insane but i cant live without them...
Gumleaf
August 7th, 2008, 12:10 AM
i know its difficult feeling the way you do and her not feeling the same way, but i think you should value the closeness of your friendship for what it is. she seems like a great person. someone told me once that having a close friend like that can be even better and more special then being in a relationship with the person.
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