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brndnjdn
August 6th, 2008, 02:07 AM
im just about to turn 15 in a week and i have a serious problem well i have not really started puberty at all.I have a few pubes but not very visable,my penis has not changed at all i cannot ejaculate no armpit hair my voice has not cracked and im in year 10
and all my friends look so much older than me. so i really need someone to help with this problem what can i do to speed up the process
Ryandel
August 6th, 2008, 02:12 AM
Everyone's body deelops at different rates. You're just a late bloomer. Unfortunately there is nothing t ospeed the process up.
pontiacdriver
August 6th, 2008, 03:34 AM
im just about to turn 15 in a week and i have a serious problem well i have not really started puberty at all.I have a few pubes but not very visable,my penis has not changed at all i cannot ejaculate no armpit hair my voice has not cracked and im in year 10
and all my friends look so much older than me. so i really need someone to help with this problem what can i do to speed up the process
At 15 you are definitely a late bloomer, but I would not be too concerned right now. I have had some family members (who were guys) who started puberty between ages 15-16, and they turned out just fine. I would talk to your father and see if he started puberty late. Many times late puberty is genetic, and oftentimes the children of late bloomers tend to be latebloomers themselves.
If you need some concrete reinforcement, then I would schedule an appointment with your healthcare provider and be totally honest and open about your problem. I am sure that there is nothing wrong with you, but I am sure a doctor who knows your family's medical history can put things in perspective for you.
In the end of the day, puberty will happen for you no matter what. You are not any less masculine or less important than the guys around you, and you are everyone's equal. I know that it can be hard being the runt of the litter right now, but your situation is really common. There are plenty of sophomores (grade 10) kids who don't really start puberty until the end of the year, and you are not alone in your situation.
The most important part of a person is his/her personality, and don't let this most temporary set back in anyway make you think less of yourself. In the end of the day it is what inside that counts, and if you don't appear bothered by this problem, then no one will mess with you.
Maxismax123
August 6th, 2008, 11:44 AM
Puberty is awkward and some develop later than others, but the way I see it; In ten years, you'll be just as developed as they guy who started developing when he was ten.
skhuaban
August 6th, 2008, 12:49 PM
Dude don't sweat it like at 14 1/2 i was totally in your position but then things went into overdrive. just sit back and relax chances are no one is going to see you until your ready, so just hold on you'll be fine.
mr.sexy_bomb
August 6th, 2008, 05:33 PM
theres nothing u can do to speed up the procces so just wait it will happen
MoveAlong
August 6th, 2008, 05:35 PM
im just about to turn 15 in a week and i have a serious problem well i have not really started puberty at all.I have a few pubes but not very visable,my penis has not changed at all i cannot ejaculate no armpit hair my voice has not cracked and im in year 10
and all my friends look so much older than me. so i really need someone to help with this problem what can i do to speed up the process
there is nothing you can do to speed up the process. You are merely a late bloomer. You don't have to worry because everything will start happening very soon. How do I know this? you HAVE started puberty. You have pubes that are barely visible. People who haven't started puberty don't even have any pubes. So, in conclusion, you'll be fine.
BlackBetty
August 7th, 2008, 12:05 AM
You are a late bloomer. You can't do nothing except wait.
homerallii1
August 7th, 2008, 12:36 AM
Dont worry, you're a late bloomer like me :P If you see a few pubes, you're starting. Sit back relax, and if you're self-councious (as i am) just steer away from sexual situations. And believe me in 10 years no one's gunna look back and say, "HEY! weren't you the kid who was 'small' at 15?" no one will care, and no one does care.
If your friends make fun of you try this zinger i learned, "Oh i'm sorry i didnt know you spent so much time looking at other men's dicks... wow, we all learned a lil more about you."
They dont know wat to say. Though off topic. Just dont worry man
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