Girlfriend

[authoritative]

My girlfriend and I have been getting very close in the last couple months. She says she wants to give me a blowjob, but I haven't hit puberty yet. I think she will think that my penis is small. Also, I think she might break up with me because of my inmaturity.

What should I do?:confused:

[Rawrbaby]

Well I think if she has been with you for that long she would have noticed if you were immature or not.

Best thing I can say is act a bit more mature and also if you dont feel comfortable with her giving you a blowjob then just tell her.

And if she really likes you she wont breakup with you.

Now about this puberty thing, first of all how old are you?

[authoritative]

14 and a half

[Jesse]

If she is truely your girlfriend, and she truely loves you. She souldn't break up with you because of your penis size! She should be loving you, not your penis.
Also, if you're uncomfortable with it, just tell her. She'll understand. You should engage in sexual activities when you are both ready, and it sounds as if you are not ready yet. Just take it slow man.

[Oblivion]

If she is truely your girlfriend, and she truely loves you. She souldn't break up with you because of your penis size! She should be loving you, not your penis.
Also, if you're uncomfortable with it, just tell her. She'll understand. You should engage in sexual activities when you are both ready, and it sounds as if you are not ready yet. Just take it slow man.

I agree with Jesse
If she cares about your size, then she doesn't really love you, and you probably shouldn't be having sex.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

yeah so just give it time u still have time a lot and you will grow normal like every one else ;)

[Maverick]

If you're having uncertainties of whether you should be doing any kind of sexual activity then it is best not to do it until you feel certain and comfortable with the idea.

[byee]

Am I the only one who would question what would be pleasurable about getting a b/j when you haven't hit puberty yet? What are you accomlishing here, other than the ego trip of saying you got one? I doubt it would be much fun, think about it.

Aside from that reality check, if you're as unsure about this as you said, than it's a pretty good indicator (in addition to what i said above) that you probably shouldn't do it. You need to be emotionally ready for these things, it's not just about availablitiy.

[Zan0ra]

Just take it easy. Or wait till you hit puberty. It could make the feeling much more pleasurably. And if your not comfortable with it, don't do it. Easy as pie :P

[pontiacdriver]

My girlfriend and I have been getting very close in the last couple months. She says she wants to give me a blowjob, but I haven't hit puberty yet. I think she will think that my penis is small. Also, I think she might break up with me because of my inmaturity.

What should I do?:confused:

What you need to do is to be honest with your girlfriend about your situation. Girls are very supportive, and you should give your girlfriend the benefit of the doubt. I believe I read somewhere around here that you are 14, and it is not uncommon for a 14 year not to have gone through puberty. If anything, assuming that you cannot ejaculate is a good thing for your girlfriend because she does not have to worry about dealing with semen. My point is that your lack of development definitely works in your favor as your girlfriend doesn't have to deal with a lot of pubes and body hair, semen, or even body odor if puberty has not started for you. Basically, honesty is the best policy, and if your girlfriend cannot handle the truth, then she is not worth your time. If you have so little faith in your girlfriend that you do not think that she can accept for who you are, then you really are going to have to evaluate as to why you are even in a relationship with her in the first place.


While this may be off topic, just be responsible with your body. At 14 you are probably really horny and probably think everyone around you is having sex or that you need to have sex to prove your masculinity. You should only have sex when you are ready to deal with the financial, emotional, and physical risks that come with sexual activity. Most importantly, you are still the responsibility of your parents, and if sexual activity for you is something of which neither your parents or your girlfriend's parents will approve, then you really need to act accordingly. There is no sense in having a couple of minutes of fun and compromise your long-term future.

[skhuaban]

Just tell her if she brakes up with you over it then it sucks but she's probably not the girl for you. just remember if you do decide to girls talk and your "dimensions" will be none to quite a few more people... trust me not fun even if your normal size.

[BlackBetty]

If she loves you, she will not care. You need to tell her the truth, and not lie. Best not to do anything sexual yet, but that is my opinion. If you do, use a condom.

[homerallii1]

Well Authoritative, I have the same basic situation. She's not my gf but same thing. im 13 and small like you describe... if you're not comfortable dont do it. explain it to her, but i'm betting if she's that ready to give you head, then she knows buddy :P if she has ever felt you up like my gf love interest has, then she knows and will playfully tease you.

I'm wondering is it even possible for a woman to perform head on such an underdeveloped penis? i'm wondering for my sake, and the sake of my colleague authoritative lol. but my answer is come clean dude. she'll understand

[new_kid_on_the_block]

wait how big is your penis exactly but if a girl offered me and i wasnt ready i wouldn't need to think bout it id just tell her n that'd be that. outcome good or bad take a risk.

[weredemon]

id say umm i think my moms calling me

[southcarolina]

I don't think u should worry, people in a relationship should accept each other, she may think your'e small, but unless she's that shallow she wont mind

[Snakehead]

my freind had one wen he wis 12 wit size is your dick mine is 3 inches erect (im 13)

[southcarolina]

I'm 14 and 6 inches

[mr.sexy_bomb]

i am a 13 year old freshman n my dick is almost 7 inches =]

[venomscurse]

my freind had one wen he wis 12 wit size is your dick mine is 3 inches erect (im 13)

3 inches when erect?!
how big is it when its normal??