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poolkmnhy
August 5th, 2008, 01:30 AM
im gay i have yet to come out and i think it would be best to do it at a friends house win all the people i want to tell are there and i want to do that because that way they have to face it they cant say whatever they have to talk about it am afraid if i do that they will be parinoid that because i gay i going to be attrected to any boy i see and they will think going to do somthing or i osomthing to them in a sexual way and they wont be my friend anyway bisides that as i mentiond befor im gay and haent come out and i think one of my clse friend is gay is there ny way i can persenly open up to him because hes wierd sure hes gay but he tries to hide it by like were watching i now pernowns u chuck and larry and hes like thats gross then another time were talking about gay marige and hes all for it and it like ??? so i dont now what to do i feel like i bambarding u with q and a's but one of my friend is strong cathlec rebublican like as far as u can go daily agument on how good mcain is like strong cathlic and against gay marage and that it a choice and whatever and i been frends with him sens 2 grade and were becoming freashman and i want to tell him but i scarred for his recation if were not going to be fiends or he'll beacseptiong or he'll condem me to hell (funny part about hi is i always hade a little crush on him wierd) please help[/SIZE]

NextToNormal
August 5th, 2008, 09:02 AM
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=25667 i say you look at this thread. im sure that you will find the right time and place to come out to your friends. if they dont accept you, then maybe they arent really your friends. your true friends will accept you whether you are gay or straight...they will support you no matter what you choose to do. and plus, at the end of the day, its not important what your friends think...as long as you are comfortable and accepting of who you are.

mr.sexy_bomb
August 5th, 2008, 09:45 AM
i think that no one can tell u when 2 come out u have 2 chose wut timing is right n about ur friends if they r ur friends will b ur friends no matter wut just tell them u still the same just more open about ur life good luck ;)