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jae13
August 4th, 2008, 11:38 PM
see i like girls, i go out with them n im sexually active with them. but i also want to hav sex with guys, i always fantasize about it n ive already had oral sex with them, i only find them attractive sexually n i know i dnt want 2 go out with them. im not looking 4 relationships with guys. n im not curious or experimenting anymore, ive been done wit dat a long time ago. i just dnt kno wut kind of person ive become. does this im gay?
sorry KGTM hope i got it this time.

Atonement
August 4th, 2008, 11:42 PM
First of all, for further reference, please type using complete and legible sentences.

It is very difficult for someone that is not the person to decide if someone is gay or straight. We cannot tell you that. You have to decide that yourself. Keep in mind though, you are still in puberty and you need to let your hormones calm down before you truly decide if you are gay or straight. You dont want to make a life changing decision and have it be wrong. Sounds like you are simply curious about men and that is nothing abnormal. Just keep in mind to be careful when making decisions in your sexuality.

I hope you figure it out.

Oblivion
August 4th, 2008, 11:42 PM
Try looking around the Teen Sexuality forums, at posts like this one (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=18215).
There are lots of people asking almost the exact same question as you.
But, i would say your not gay, you just have hormones going through you and you want to experiment.

Zan0ra
August 5th, 2008, 12:40 AM
You are not gay. Its just your hormones. They will calm down *eventually*

mr.sexy_bomb
August 5th, 2008, 02:42 AM
i think u just have 2 wait n see wut ur sexuality is

Rutherford The Brave
August 5th, 2008, 06:16 AM
You got it :) don't worry I was just concerned about you getting help. Your probably not gay, your just curious like everyone said.