What Should I do??

[dominikluke]

I'm 16, and I live up with my mom and come down to my dads for the summer I recently have been having an atraction to my step mom and cant controll my urges and have been fantasizing about her all the time she finds me attractive to and rubs on me somtimes what should I do? :confused:

[mr.sexy_bomb]

it think you should becareful because after all she is kind of your mom and i dont think you wanna hurt your dad that way so forget her and find a single girl for you good luck ;)

[pontiacdriver]

When you are in puberty anything and everything is going to turn you on, and it is not unusual for you to have feelings towards your father's mate especially if she is your type. However, the quickest way to get over your feelings is to think of this woman as your second mom or even as an aunt. Whenever you think of her in a sexual way, then immediately think of your mum which should kill any attraction that you have. Also, think of your step-mother as a blood relative which should kill any arousal that you have. Basically, associate any sexual feelings you have for your step-mother with something that will guarantee to turn you off, and you should be fine.

[byee]

Rubs on you? What does she do, exactly?

fantasizing is OK, keep it in your head.

Touching is a no no, esp. when you're so overstimulated. either pull away, or ask her to please stop.

[BlackBetty]

I think this is disgusting.

About her rubbing you, that probably needs to stop. I would tell her something stupid so she will stop.

If you think it is something sexually going on, you need to let someone know ASAP.

[Kuervo]

well what i would do is try to ignore her. best thing to do