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justateen93
July 30th, 2008, 10:05 PM
ok my best friend is dating this really awsome chick she likes me so we started to flirt ive been friends with him 6 years and me and my best friend first meet her like 4 days ago and i told her i love her because she said she loved me and she told him and he knows and i dont know wat to tell him they really connected but so did we:( i dont know wat to do
Rutherford The Brave
July 30th, 2008, 10:07 PM
Well you can't avoid it now. You just have to tell him that you have an interest in his girlfriend. Sorry but you have to recognize that he's going to be mad and your just going to have to accept that she is with him. Also for the safety of yourself if she asks you to engage in sexual activities with her while shes with him, say no.
justateen93
July 30th, 2008, 10:11 PM
ok thank u but i was hoping i could avoid it but i cannt and i will not do any sexual activities
mr.sexy_bomb
July 30th, 2008, 11:04 PM
forget it just think about wut it b like if u r dating a girl n us best friend try 2 take her away so face it u have 2 move on with out her
byee
July 30th, 2008, 11:37 PM
If he 'Knows', give him the opportunity to respond to you, see hat he says. BAsed on his response, you'll know better how to proceed. Right now you need that crucial bit of info.
Mr. Smithers
July 31st, 2008, 01:34 AM
Well she's happier with him. It sounds upsetting and bad for you, but its the truth. I would rather for them to be a nice happy couple than for me to be upset and jealous and to try and ruin her relationship with him. Just find somebody else to be with. I really don't think you are going to be able to get into another relationship with her.
Dragon Fire
July 31st, 2008, 11:56 PM
Ok, you can not control who you have feelings for, yea that sounds strange but its true, you are attracted to someone for a reason.. just for now, dont ignore your feelings because that will make it worse.. just keep looking for someone else until you get feeligns for them
Kuervo
August 1st, 2008, 12:07 AM
if i were you i would tell your friend the truth. i would say "hey man i have a crush n your gf" or something like that. idk if t would work but try it.
Nihilus
August 1st, 2008, 12:53 AM
Well you can't avoid it now. You just have to tell him that you have an interest in his girlfriend. Sorry but you have to recognize that he's going to be mad and your just going to have to accept that she is with him. Also for the safety of yourself if she asks you to engage in sexual activities with her while shes with him, say no.
Great advice dude. REP +
tombstonequeen
August 1st, 2008, 05:11 AM
stay away from ppl ur friends r dating or like it will just end up in heart ache for both
Zan0ra
August 1st, 2008, 08:51 AM
You're just going to have to tell your freind that you like her to. Not much else I can say.
Brazdar
August 1st, 2008, 12:26 PM
whait to see how your friend is reacting and if he's against this, you'll have to balance, who do you care more for,the girl or your best friend? i guess it's up to you then
Vampir3Saliva
August 1st, 2008, 08:06 PM
It's all out in the open. The cars are out on the table now.
Just be straight with him and tell him the truth and how you feel.
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