I enjoy being told what to do

[Lennonism]

Again, I'm not sure if this is the right place for this topic. Just move it if it isn't.

I enjoy being told what to do by females. Just thinking about it turns me on. If a girl looks good, I'll do pretty much whatever she wants me to do. Almost all of my sexual fantasies involve being treated literally like a house pet by a girl. At first, I was pretty proud of this, but lately, it's started to worry me. I mean, I don't want to live my life being treated like a pet, but at the same time, I love imagining it. Is this wrong?

I'm not a very masculine guy in real life, either. I usually hang out with girls, and I have a lot of girly habits like twirling my hair, eating fried chicken with a fork, etc. I don't play any sports, PE is my smallest class and home economics is my biggest. Most of the other guys I've met at school are jerks except for one or two, and the girls just seem easier to get along with. Nothing like my fantasy has ever actually happened, except for one time when these two girls demanded that I followed them around this public event all day like a lost puppy (Which I did, and enjoyed, obviously).

I know people have their own turn-ons, but am I taking mine a bit too far?

[The Batman]

No it's actually a fetish your attracted to Dominatrix which is in the world of BDSM read here for more info. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dominatrix

[Lennonism]

No it's actually a fetish your attracted to Dominatrix which is in the world of BDSM read here for more info. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dominatrix

Yeah. I'd known about dominatrices for a while now, and that's definitely what I'm turned on by (Only certain aspects, though. I don't like it if it hurts).

[Ryandel]

Well, if you're starting to get concerned about this. Then you should tone it down a notch or two. If its bothering you a lot, then try to change character a bit, by getting more into athletics. Also, your experience with guys being jerks is understandable. But don't stop trying, not all guys are like that.

[Zan0ra]

Your fine in my point of view. You're very similar to me. *gets reminded of memories* lol, at school even when I have done my hair the way I like it. She does it they way she likes it * fluffy like her's* she also takes around some girl deodorant and sprays it all over me. I actually enjoy it! It gets even funnier when she tells me she's gonna bring in lipstick, nail varnish etc. ;) Makes me look like an idiot but I love it.

If it doesn't bug you then continue. But maybe there taking advantage of you?

[Lennonism]

Your fine in my point of view. You're very similar to me. *gets reminded of memories* lol, at school even when I have done my hair the way I like it. She does it they way she likes it * fluffy like her's* she also takes around some girl deodorant and sprays it all over me. I actually enjoy it! It gets even funnier when she tells me she's gonna bring in lipstick, nail varnish etc. ;) Makes me look like an idiot but I love it.

If it doesn't bug you then continue. But maybe there taking advantage of you?

Sounds like you're living my dream life, actually.

[Sapphire]

Don't worry too much about it.

The fact that you don't want to be treated like that all the time shows that it is a sexual turn on for you and nothing more. There is nothing wrong with this and when you are in a relationship (if she is willing of course! lol) you can act out this fantasy every so often.

As long as there is basic love and respect in your relationship then you can do this and have all the nice, loving aspects too!