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MoveAlong
July 29th, 2008, 06:13 PM
Ok so people always come in this forum and ask "Am I gay?". Many of them always previously state "I have a girlfriend and love her very much" or "women have always turned me on but lately I've been interested in guys".

So let me ask you this one question...
How can you be gay, if...you like women? O_O I know mindblowing, right?

You can't. You can't be gay.
Ta daa

Yasmine
July 29th, 2008, 06:25 PM
people don't get what it means. they think their gender identity has something to do with it, but it doesn't. sexual orientation is about liking a male or female, and nothing more.

ShatteredWings
July 29th, 2008, 07:00 PM
your title got my attention.. usually i don't even get close to clicking on thoes. i really don't think we can tell you

honestly, i think everyone is at least a little curious...

Rutherford The Brave
July 29th, 2008, 07:12 PM
Ok so people always come in this forum and ask "Am I gay?". Many of them always previously state "I have a girlfriend and love her very much" or "women have always turned me on but lately I've been interested in guys".

So let me ask you this one question...
How can you be gay, if...you like women? O_O I know mindblowing, right?

You can't. You can't be gay.
Ta daa

It is mindblowing. Still the people who post that way might in fact fear being Gay because they think they will be outcast. Your right though having an interest in women or men vice versa over the same sex generally means you are not and I repeat Not Gay.

Zan0ra
July 30th, 2008, 01:54 AM
Unles there bi, and there trying to figure out that.

Requin
July 30th, 2008, 04:05 AM
As i've said before, scientists in london have found that gay men's brains are very similar to straight female brains, and gay women have similar brains to straight men.
This seems a bit obvious to me, but it still is suprising that there so similar.
In other words there saying that you can be born gay!
It's all to do with something that happens inside the womb when your close to being born, there testing that now, but i thought i would tell you anyway.

To your question, i agree with you in some ways. But think about it.
We are all human's, so we can all tell when someone's good looking or not, am i right?
I know that Johnny Depp's good looking but it doesn't mean i'm gay and fancy him, does it?
Just think about that :-)

Zan0ra
July 30th, 2008, 04:09 AM
Yeah I agree ^^ But its considered a feminine thing to call someone else of the same gender good lucking. Thats why people think your gay if a guy sues it. Sexist....

Requin
July 30th, 2008, 04:15 AM
I know it's strange, there's another post about that somewhere....can't find it.
But we can can't we, we know when someone's good looking, even if we don't admit to it. So a gay man can be walking down the street and see a very tall, black haired women with great breasts etc, and he thinks "God she looks good! I wander if i could try that lipstick" and so on.
You get what i mean.

MoveAlong
July 30th, 2008, 02:50 PM
To your question, i agree with you in some ways. But think about it.
We are all human's, so we can all tell when someone's good looking or not, am i right?
I know that Johnny Depp's good looking but it doesn't mean i'm gay and fancy him, does it?
Just think about that :-)

Well to me, that a major duh, and I agree with you. But some people don't understand that.
"oh, that rock is an interesting color."
"eww, you rockosexual"

duh

by the way my post isn't a question, it's a statement