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Zan0ra
July 29th, 2008, 05:09 AM
This morning is a strange one. For some unexplained reason I woke up and my body was telling me to become a bi-sexual. what the?!??!!?! I can Hadley picture myself like that. But this isn't the first time. When I was 11 I thought I was bi-sexual and was nearly stupid enough to tell everyone. I can only picture myself straight. And have never fancied another guy in my life. But this just pops out of no-where.

is this part of puberty or is it another matter? please reply

-Thanks

Requin
July 29th, 2008, 07:54 AM
It's my banning budy.
Anyway since you said you've never fancied another guy in your life then your NOT GAY OR BI. It's as simple (apparently) as this, generally if your gay you would have a physical and mental attraction to the same sex. You don't so you don't need to panic.

These thoughts are just things that the hormones are doing to you, and your mind is still developing into who you will be when puberty is over so i guess it's just a random stage.
Since you said the last time this happened was when you were 11! Proves that these are just random things in your mind, and your only 13. Your not through puberty yet.

So overall your mind telling you that you need to be bi...is a little strange if i'm honest but it'll pass in time, and it's most likely that your not bi or gay.
Hope that helped.

Zan0ra
July 29th, 2008, 07:58 AM
Yeah it did, thanks. I'm trying to out it behind me.

Although sometimes I do fantasize about same sex activity. But its probably normal. Just though I would bring that up as well.