Am i Gay?

[DANIEL]

I have had oral before and im 13, i enjoyed it and we masturbate eachother, rub our penis's on eachother and give eachother blow jobs! is that normal or are we gay?

[Jesse]

Well, the answer to the question is something only YOU can answer. Most likely you are curious and are just experimenting. But you have to ask yourself, do you have a physical as well as an emotional attraction towards men? If so then that would make you gay, or at least bi. If this experimenting with your friend turns into a regular thing, then I'd take a step back and look over your sexuality again. Do you just enjoy it? Or have you actually fallen in love with him? (Without knowing it.)

[Oblivion]

I agree with Jesse, really only you can answer.
But, we can help you figure it out. Most people experiment (like 60% of guys), so in that perspective its completely normal.
But, if it gets regular, and you continue to enjoy it, then you have actually started a sexual relationship with someone. Which also, doesn't necessarily mean your gay, especially when your 13.
I would advise waiting it out to find out if your gay or not, because its extremely hard to find out when your in puberty.

[Zan0ra]

You're probably not gay. But only you can figure that out for yourself. Most kids *including me hopefully* your age experiment with the same gender. Its a completely natural thing.

[Jesse]

So you are saying that the 60% or so of the male population of MANKIND of which about 55-57% lead perfectly straight lives, are now suddenly gay? Because they were curious about what it would be like to kiss another boy? Get sucked by a boy? Suck a boy? Ect, ect. This DOES NOT make him gay in any sense.

[Zan0ra]

Drakoster listen. You're obviously a christian so I can see where you are getting this from. I'm an atheist but that's a different subject. He is not gay. It is not disgusting. Being gay is having sexual and emotional feelings with guys. He is simply experimenting to see whats out there. But if it turns out that he likes "it" and that it could be anything. You could say that yes he is gay. But its best not decided at such a young age.

[Patchy]

Right this has gone way of topic. I tried cleaning this up but its obviously not helped so,

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