overly stressed... what to do

[lxl]

i dont know how many times this happened... my mom is always suffering from my grandma's (dad's side) inner hatred towards her, and my dad ends up supporting my grandma
its just not fair to see my mom being blamed and being hurt just because of my grandma not liking her son's wife...
this situation at the moment makes my heart feel heavy and all these bad and negative thoughts running thrugh my head making it even worse... the worst thing is that i can't resolve conflict between the two so if this situation comes up again im not gonna know what to do
am i just worrying too much about this? should i let things move on?

[byee]

This is their affair, it doesn't really concern you directly, so my adivce would be to stay out of it, you cannot fix this, nor should you try.

What you can do, however, is act as an observer, and let them know what you're seeing and, most importantly, how stressful it is for you.

It is up to them to control themselves, perhaps if they were aware of your reaction to this they might just begin to do so. Give them the feedback about their behavior, as well as your reaction to it, and maybe there perspective will change and cause them to reevaluate the way they deal with this issue.

[PoodleXOFreak]

This is their affair, it doesn't really concern you directly, so my adivce would be to stay out of it.

Yupp I agree with IAMSAM.
They deffinetly need to work it out, its childish.

[The Batman]

Another thing is that you can let your mom know how much you love her and let her know how you feel about this, so she can know that she isn't alone and that she does have someone there with her.