how do i get privacy from my mom?

[Yasmine]

you might think this is weird, but my mom sees me naked everyday. when i get out of the shower, she wants to dry me, but i'm not comfortable with it. how do i tell her i would like to do it myself without hurting her feelings?

[Bobby]

Tell her you're a teenager and that you can dry yourself. That is very weird that she wants to do that and if she really cares she will recognize that you don't want her to do it.

[Yasmine]

there's kids who are pre teens, and they can do it themselves without a problem. i wonder why my mom is like that.

[Zan0ra]

Parents don't want to lose there children. But you have to tell her that your a big guy now. And you can take care of yourself.

[Sapphire]

You have to tell her. If she respects you and your views at all then she will understand.

Do you have a lock on the bathroom door?

[ShatteredWings]

dude, she's way over protective..


just tell her to stop. your a big girl now, you can do it yourself :P

[byee]

Her feelings aren't as important as yours here, you can just let her know that you prefer your privacy, and lock the door.

P.S. Gwyn? This isn't 'overprotective' , it's intrusive. Big difference.

[ShatteredWings]

my bad. sorry

[Yasmine]

Parents don't want to lose there children. But you have to tell her that your a big guy now. And you can take care of yourself.

i'm not a guy :(:(:(:(

[krystalm]

ah, i'm kind of in the same boat, my moms goes in to physicals with me :( i absolutely can't stand it.

[Zan0ra]

i'm not a guy :(:(:(:(

I have a complete male reproductive system on the outside

Oh. Is this about the transgender thing?

[Yasmine]

it is. i do not identify myself as a guy, and i hate when people call me one. i'm a girl. it doesn't matter what genitals i have. that was a knife right through my heart.

[Zan0ra]

Oh. i'm really sorry about that. I haven't been here long so I wouldn't know if you preferred to be called a girl. So sorry if I offended you. :(

[Nihilus]

Tell her that you aren't a little kid, and that now you are a young adult. She will understand that.

[Kuervo]

if i were you i would tell her how you feel about it.