why is a guy thinking another is hot "gay"?

[SoRiver98]

girls do it all the time calling each other cute and hot and sexy but they're not attracted to them but if a guy says they think a woman would be attracted to them they're gay. that makes no sense.

[Zan0ra]

Well, guys seam to all compete to get the best girl. So if like you said one guy said something like "hey you're looking good today" and stuff they would all assume he's gay. Its hard to explain but its just stupid.

[Requin]

*In comes AxLr with a long explanation*

Well...it comes down to people being naturaly sexist again. Not intenionally being sexist but that is what i think it is. Girls have, 'unwritten' boundries as well as boys.
I guess that girls calling each other sexy and saying things like 'hey you look good' is regarded as a feminine, so therefore boys just don't say it.

This is stupid i know, but that is how society seems to work. Boys talk about masturbating alot and with girls it's generally considered taboo. It's all to do with being feminine and acting like a girl makes everyone immediatly think that there gay. Same with girls. If a girl likes playing football alot then they seem to be considered a 'tom boy' and eventually people calling her a lesbian.

Again it's not always the case but that's society. The media, and peoples day to day experiences and lives have got visions of what a Gay man acts like. Woe betide you if you act camp. :-)

[Zan0ra]

Are school is sexist. i'm one of the best hockey players in the school. BUT I CANT PLAY!
i'm also frequently referred to as "gay" just because I dont like football as much as other sports. Boys can't do athletics. Because I can no longer do that I can no longer touch my toes.

[Mr. Smithers]

Because they are just too insecure. Its a girl thing. So its not a guy thing. When I say guy I say straight men.