movies

[Close102]

there is this girl who im pretty good friends with and i want to invite her to go to the movies (as friends) with me and one of my friends who she also knows. so who do you think should pays for her ticket?

[Sapphire]

If you are going as friends then let her pay for her own ticket.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Be a gentleman! Pay for her ticket even if you are not dating!

[Sage]

Be a gentleman! Pay for her ticket even if you are not dating!

Ah, true! Chivalry art not dead, aye, treat the fairer sex well at all times, related or not. ^^

[Gumleaf]

If you are going as friends then let her pay for her own ticket.

i agree, if you are going as friends you should all buy your own tickets. offering to buy hers would be a nice gesture, but that might make her think that you are interested as more then friends and might make things awkward.

[Sage]

It's never awkward until you say it is.

[Mr. Smithers]

Well it depends on her money issues.

I have a friend that I go to a lot of places with. Her parents rarely have any lunch money for her so I be nice and pay for her.

But with my friends that do have money, they pay for their own ticket and food.

[dudesweet101]

I would offer just incase.

Do you like this girl?

[Close102]

well she goes to the movies a lot so im asumming she has enough money. she also has a lot of nice stuff. i know its not okay to assume stuff but i think im right. but i'll probably still ofer to buy it any way. and yes i do like her.

[TSchulz]

you should,you invited her didnt u or at least offer to pay her way in.

[krystalm]

chivalry should be dead. don't offer to pay for her ticket unless she says she doesn't have the money.

[byee]

well she goes to the movies a lot so im asumming she has enough money. she also has a lot of nice stuff. i know its not okay to assume stuff but i think im right. but i'll probably still ofer to buy it any way. and yes i do like her.

I think it depends more on her expectations than your desires. It could be awkward if she's expecting one thing, and it turns out another way. Buying someone's ticket usually implies something, like it's a 'date'. If she's OK with that, fine. If not, if you haven't made that clear in advance, then it might be best to NOT pay. It's not 'chivalrous', b/c the expectations haven't been clarified, so it would be more presumptive.

Regardless of who pays for the ticket, it's OK to buy the big bucket of popcorn and share it.

[Close102]

Regardless of who pays for the ticket, it's OK to buy the big bucket of popcorn and share it.

i probably will so i hope she likes popcorn. when i invite her i'll make sure i say it's not a date. so thanks guys.

[Vampir3Saliva]

Whether you are just friends or not, you should always be a gentleman and pay for her.