Abusive Uncle

[xox.Sweety.Pie.xox]

Ok so when I was 5-8 years old my Uncle abused me,rhaped me,hit me repeatedly and I told my mom and she said I was making it up so here i am 16 now and these last 5 days hes been trying to ask me personal stuff,hit on me,and touch me in personal places and I told my mom again she asked my Uncle and hes making excuses to her and shes believeing him and the worse thing is he threatened that he would hurt me repeatedly again if i tried to call the police so now he is stalking me and asking me where im going and he broke my cell phone so i wont call the police and he took away my car keys so i dont try to go to the police and im getting scared cus he watches me change in my bedroom every night so i had to start changing under the blanket or in a closet! somebody please help me before im sexually abused again!

[byee]

There's nothing worse than adults not believing you, esp. when it comes to actual physical harm.

If you are being threatened, then you must call the police. You have to protect yourself and if the adults cannot do that, you must do it for yourself.

If you have some evidence, or if you can get some evidence, maybe a recording of your uncle threatening you or coming on to you, that would greatly help, so that it's not their word against yours.

[Oblivion]

Truthfully it doesn't matter what your mom thinks.

16 year old girl's opinion > Creepy old uncles opinion

Call the police next time you can get to a phone, they can help you and get you out of there.

If you can't get to a phone, try to convince your mom that he really is doing it.
Why would she ask him anyway?
He isn't going to say 'Oh, you caught me!' then put out his hand for the cuffs.

[xox.Sweety.Pie.xox]

okay she ask him because she wants to make shure im not just joking and playing around with her

[xox.Sweety.Pie.xox]

yah but when i try to use the phone in our house and he comes right up to me sits beside me and touchs my leg and then ask me who im calling and says he needs the phone and makes up a excuse like im waiting for a friend to call
yah but next time i go to my friends ill try to call the police

[Rawrbaby]

The best thing you can do is just get out of that place, call the police. Best thing to do is try to get out of the house go to a friends and then call the police. If he tries to do anything just fight back. Just run out of that place, get away.

[Sapphire]

I am really sorry that your mum doesn't believe you.

Regardless of who believes you (or not) you have to get out of there as soon as possible. You shouldn't have to put up with that at all and can't let it carry on.

[Mr. Smithers]

Yes this is very bad. I'm sorry that he is doing all of these things to you.

But yes, if you mother isn't believing you then you need to step up and do whats right and that's to call the police. He's also done this before which is even more horrifying.

You might not even be able to stay in that house but its probably all worth it. You are unsafe around him and you need to call the police.

[Zan0ra]

Your mom should notice hes stalking you. The moment you get to a phone and he's not around call the police. Or go to bed, get up really early when hes gone. And call then.

Hope things turn out to be ok soon.

[Medical Kid]

and if the plan about going to you friends house dosent work, like if he somehow comes with you, you gotta get that friend to come with you and talk to your mom, she cant turn down that many people.

[xox.Sweety.Pie.xox]

okay but if i try to sneak out earlier in the morning the floors are really squeaky and make lots of noise so i have to find a different way to get out

[Oblivion]

Doesn't he ever let you out of the house?

[Zan0ra]

You will have to wait till you go to your friends. Either way you cannot lose once that happens.

[Sapphire]

Let him overhear you talking with a friend about meeting up. That way, you have a reason to leave the house without anyone accusing you of lying. Then you can phone the police.

[Medical Kid]

wait wait wait here people, will they really believe her? wont she need evidence or witnesses? cuz if this plan fans out this guy may never get caught.

[Nihilus]

ask a friend to call the police for you. You can also talk to a adult at your school, and get help from them. Contact the police when ever you can.

[Close102]

call the police. there is nothing else you can due. a possible few broken bones that can be fixed (not to scare you) is a lot better than being abused until he gets caught. then on the bright side you can sue him.

[The Batman]

Get out of there as fast as you can, don't even worry about packing clothes just run out of the front door and straight to the police station. This could get a lot worse very fast so you need to leave before he tries anything.

[The Batman]

No don't do that at all you could get into serious trouble for stabbing him even if he deserves it.

[iceyfresh]

CONTACT THE ATHORITYS! figure out a way to get in contact with police have a friend call them anything no one deservis to be raped or abused in any way

[Yasmine]

do you live with your uncle? do you visit him often? if i was you, i would refuse to be around him. that's not acceptable behavior, especially from your uncle. there's only so many excuses he can make, before it isn't believable anymore, and you mom has to be gullible to believe him. there is no reason whatsoever, that he has the right to touch you in places like that.

[xox.Sweety.Pie.xox]

i dont live with him he lives with us cus he has no job now but I found a way to get out the other day so i went to a pay phone and forgot my wallet but i cant really go to my friends because there houses arent in my town and i dont have my licsense lol

[Master Bait]

Well, I'm sorry your mom doesnt believe you. I'm not an expert in this area. But what I'm saying is probably to tell your mom, and ignore the fact that he is going to hurt you. Tell her to call the police immediately, and maybe he wont hurt you in front of her.

Another thing could be using the internet. Use that to contact the police, or a friend who will call the police.

Finally, go go to the school office. Tell the principal that your uncle is sexually abusing you. They'll call the police right away.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

call the police pronto before he does any thing more sexual

[ktkurbst0mp]

Proof, would be the best thing.
But I can say that if you call the police, most likely they will come help you.

[Sapphire]

I thought you said he had taken your keys, not your licence...If you have your keys, then jump in the car and go.

[Master Bait]

Well, the last resort is violence. When he lets his guard down, just kick him(in the balls or not), and run. Run like you've never run before. Run to your neighbor and tell him or her that your uncle is abusing you. If its the wife, ask for her husband to protect you. They'll probably keep you safe until the cops come. The only two flaws are that maybe your neighbors are in on it, or you uncle manages to catch you(if they dont answer the door in time). But DONT do this unless everything else fails! But school probable wont...

[ktkurbst0mp]

The school will definately take that seriously.
Even if your mother doesn't believe you, they will definately do something.

[shikachunin]

Well, couldn't U go to a friends house(get UR mom to drive you) and use his/her cell/home phone? That would be the best.

[waterplayer]

when u are sure you are alone tell all the people you can.GET THE WORD OUT ON THIS GUY

[Dominated]

Okay well everyone is telling you to call the police, but I think you made it a bit clear that you cannot call the police (because of him being there, your cell phone being broken). And even if your friend lives in a different town there's gotta be a friend closer than that. Perhaps you should ask a neighbor or a friend that lives close to you if you cane use their phone. I think the best thing for you to do, since your mother does not believe you, is to talk to your school counselor. She/he should help you through this, they might ask you personal information to get deeper into this case. This could go to court. But yeh like someone said before, try to get some evidence against him. Maybe record him hitting on you, invite a friend over without his knowledge and have him hit on you while your friend is behind the corner or something, at least then you will have a witness. Your counselor will contact your parents and maybe then your mother will realize that this is serious and you are not making this up. Good luck.

[eskimogal700]

talk to a neighbor that you trust or a teacher you trust. they should be able to help you, and lend you a phone.

[tyler ftw]

ok now i hate to tell you to resort to this but if i was in your situation i would cary a knife or a bat with me and try to get to one of the neighbors house and if he comes at you do what you have to do no matter if you hurt him or not it is self deffence and if you dont want to do the neighbore thing then go to your school PRENCIPLE and tell him/her whats happeneing and if all els fails then i will come to your house personally and beat the living snot out of him for you :)