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PoodleXOFreak
July 23rd, 2008, 10:39 AM
I have 2 best friends. Lets call them Kristen and Mariah. Kristen constantly talks crap about Mariah and Mariah does the same. They hate each other. If I fight with one if them, the one I fight with goes off and talks bad about me to the other best friend, and they become good friends. When were at school they like to ignore me and be completely emotionless with me once theyre friends again. Mariah keeps lieing to me about stuff that Kristen "supposivly" said. Kristen on the other hand keeps telling me that Mariah is a loser and stuff.
Its a never ending cycle!
HELP!

byee
July 23rd, 2008, 11:40 AM
This is so adolescent!

Tell them to knock it off, that they can feel anyway they want about eachother, or say anything they want about eachother, but they can't do this with you.

If they continue, you either put up with it, knowing that it's just silly, immature competitive stuff, or you tell them good bye and make other friends who are a tad more reasonable and mature.

Sapphire
July 23rd, 2008, 12:17 PM
Life is too short to put up with situations like this. Get some new friends who treat each other properly and just want to have a laugh.

Mr. Smithers
July 24th, 2008, 12:05 AM
Yeah they are just normal teenage girls. They get jealous of you and other girls. They gossip and tell secrets. You become friends, you don't become friends. I agree it keeps going on.

You can decide to either stay in a friendship with them or move on. My choice would be for me to sit and see whether or not they are going to continue with this. Because sooner or later, they are going to get tired of always fighting and making fun of you. Because they will see that you are a true friend to them. Being that friends really need to stick together for each other. Either they are going to become friends with you and work it out, or they will keep going. Its your choice as to what you are going to do.

Hyper
July 24th, 2008, 11:10 AM
I doubt any of them are your real friends..

But you pretty much have to choose.. Atleast thats how it usually goes.

Zan0ra
July 24th, 2008, 11:54 AM
Tell them to stop and grow up a bit. If they continue I suggest you play with someone else.