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Zan0ra
July 23rd, 2008, 04:43 AM
Whats the difference between a normal lipstick/lesbian? What exactly is a lipstick lesbian anyways.? If its what I think it is, I may have a friend *girl* nearing it.

*Sorry if this is in the worng place*

Patchy
July 23rd, 2008, 04:51 AM
General Questions, Polls and Surveys p101 --> Teen Sexuality

Zan0ra
July 23rd, 2008, 06:19 AM
Sorry :(

Rutherford The Brave
July 23rd, 2008, 06:41 AM
Wikipedia
A lipstick lesbian is a slang term used to describe lesbian and bisexual women who exhibit feminine gender attributes, such as wearing make-up (thus, lipstick), wearing dresses or skirts and perhaps having other characteristics associated with feminine women.

In mainstream American films, lesbians are often portrayed according to the lipstick lesbian stereotype to be both politically safer and more sexually attractive to male viewers. A good example is Showtime's television series The L Word, which presents most of its major lesbian characters in this way.[1] Most lesbians in mainstream pornography are also portrayed in this way.

The term was used in San Francisco at least as far back as the 1980s. In 1982, Priscilla Rhoades, a journalist with the gay newspaper The Sentinel, wrote a feature story on "Lesbians for Lipstick." The term is thought to have emerged in wide usage during the early 1990s. A 1997 episode of the television show Ellen widely publicized the phrase. In the show, Ellen DeGeneres's character, asked by her parents whether a certain woman is a "dipstick lesbian," explains that the term is "lipstick lesbian," and comments that "I would be a chapstick lesbian."

In 1999, columnist Mark Steyn called actress Anne Heche, who was dating DeGeneres at the time, "the world's most famous lipstick lesbian." [2]

A distinction is sometimes drawn between the phrases "lipstick lesbian" and "chapstick lesbian" and the older phrases butch and femme by suggesting that the former phrases simply refer to appearance, whereas the latter imply mutual attraction of the two types. "Chapstick lesbians" are often considered soft butch.

The term has also been reinterpreted as a derogatory reference to feigned or temporary lesbianism (as in lesbian until graduation) — implying that it is as easy as lipstick to add or remove. Additionally, it has been applied to heterosexual women who engage in sapphic behaviour with the intention of arousing men.

An alternate term for "lipstick lesbian" is "doily dyke."[3][4]



Hope that helps you.

Patchy
July 23rd, 2008, 06:42 AM
Sorry :(

Don't worry its cool :)

Zan0ra
July 23rd, 2008, 09:02 AM
yeah thanks KGTM, I was right.