Date Dancing

[Cable]

OK, so thers a halloween dance, and theres a girl I really want to go with, the only thing is, girls are supposed to ask the guys to this dance.

How do I get the message across that I want to go with her?

[Skhorpion]

flirt with her some, dont come on to strong though

pay attention to her and dont make her think your ignoring her

[Elokyn]

I'd say to just hang around her and flirt a little but like alone said..not too strong.

If she's interested...or if she has the nerve lol she'll ask you :)

[Cable]

Well like teh other day, I was sitting at a table in the morning with her, and it was just us(we have an extra hour before school starts on tues and thurs) and I was kinda flirting, more working up to it, but we were both laughing and having fun. But then I went to the bathroom, and when I got back about 3-4 of her friends were sitting there with her. I was nervous about sitting down with her when all her friends were aeround so I went and hung out with my other friends.

I dont have any classes with her but Ive been trying to sit with her every day, but sometimes she is doing homework in the mornings, so she isnt completely focused on our conversation.

[Skhorpion]

sounds like your doing good

keep it up, dont be scared of hanging out with ehr friends though, if you do go with her then they will know so you might as well let them know who you are :)

[Cable]

The only thing is, I dont know what she really thinks of me. I know she wants to be friennds with me, but I dont know if shes like "in my league".

She is pretty good looking, not like flashy or anything, but still shes pretty hot. And then I geuss I am not like ugly or anything, but you wouldnt exactly call me a stud.

But I dont like her because of how she looks. So should it matter?

[Skhorpion]

if you like her by looks only, forget it

if you like her for her personality over looks then your doing good

[Cable]

Yeah I like her becuase, like I said, not because of how she looks, but becasue her personality.

[Skhorpion]

good just keep up what your doing and maybe when your alone with her tell her how you feel, dont make it sound like a joke though sound serious about it

[Cable]

Man tho, I know I have to ask this girl out soon, becasue i dont want to make the same mistake as I did with my first crush. I waited for months because I was too nervous to ask her out.

Should I like try to arrange justa casual hangingo ut after school one day with her? Or should I go striaght for a date?

[Skhorpion]

go slow, casual hanging out sounds good

[Cable]

OK. Im cleaning my room tmmorow, so she wont be disgusted if she comes over lol.

I just hope I have the courage to ask her.

[Skhorpion]

go for it :)

[ScotsGirl]

I just hope I have the courage to ask her.

Of course you do sweetie! You just have to believe you do ;)

Goodluck! :D
:hug:
xxx

[Cable]

Thanks.

I cleaned my room today, what a headache.

But now its nice and shiney!


One more thing, if she comes over to my house, what do I do then?
Should I have a plan?

[ScotsGirl]

Awesome! :D

And, by "a plan".... you mean something for you two to do or...?

In my opinion you should prob have some ideas, but dont have it set in stone unless youre sure you both want to do it.
I dont know what you guys are like when youre together, but if you dont have any ideas then you run the risk of spending the whole night asking her, "so what do you want to do?" and her replying "i dont mind, what do you want to do" etc etc :P
Not that im saying that will happen or anything...but as the boy scouts say...be prepared! :D

:D
xxx