advice?

[ashleyahmazing]

i've had this boyfriend sence June 30th, and im starting to second guess our relationship. for example: he was sopost to come over my house one day, 'n he said he'd be over at 6. so i said alrightt and blew off all my other plans for the night becuase i really wanted to see him. so 7 oh'clock comes, then 8 oh'clock and still no boyfriend. so then i get a call from my bestfriend asking me if i was with him and i asked no why? and she said becuase she just seen him down the carnival with a couple girls. (mind you he didn't even call me to tell me he couldn't make it) and when i asked him about why he didn't show up, he said becuase his mom made him go to the carnival, that sounds like a load of b*hit to me. but yet he tells me that he's in love with me and im the best thing that's ever happened to him, so then why would he do that?

basically what im trying to figure out is, should i stay with him or let him go?

[Patchy]

Hey Ashley welcome to vt I'm Patrick.

Well it depends if you love him still and want to be with him, you should talk to him about it say you want to stay together but right now it isn't working out.

hopefully this helps :)

[ashleyahmazing]

Hey Ashley welcome to vt I'm Patrick.

Well it depends if you love him still and want to be with him, you should talk to him about it say you want to stay together but right now it isn't working out.

hopefully this helps :)

thanks. (: that really does help alott, me and him have been dating for 3 weeks but like i've never felt this way about anyone in this short of time and i don't wanna end things just yet.

[Patchy]

how old are you both?

Just so I can understand how serious a relationship it could be.

[ashleyahmazing]

how old are you both?

Just so I can understand how serious a relationship it could be.

its not that serious, he's 14 and im 15.

[ashleyahmazing]

how old are you both?

Just so I can understand how serious a relationship it could be.

its not that serious, he's 14 and im 15.

[Patchy]

Okay well I would still have a word with him, saying you want to spend more time with him.

[ashleyahmazing]

Okay well I would still have a word with him, saying you want to spend more time with him.

okay thanks, i'll try that. (:

[dudesweet101]

Little white lies like that can turn into bigger ones.

[Vampir3Saliva]

That's a lie, what he told you. He's there with girls, so he could be cheating on you.
Sure, he tells you he wants to be with you and loves you and yadda yadda, but talk is cheap and he's just telling you what you want to hear hoping you will believe him so you won't break up with him or think he'll cheat on you.
I say break up with him definitely.

[byee]

Well, maybe his mom told him to go to the carnival (although that's a bit of a stretch, why would she care?), but that notwithsatnding it does NOT explain why he didn't call you to tell you he could not make your plans, and maybe even invite you to the carnival!

I would ask him nicely what happened here, and why he didn't call to at least cancel the plans with you and provide an explanation. It sounds suspicious to me, and unless he came up with a really believable excuse, I'd look elsewhere for companionship.