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rangerfan523
July 22nd, 2008, 01:06 AM
lately my life sucks my parewnts are fighting mmy girlfriend broke-up with me i thing i might be gay my aunt died not to along ago i just cant take it i dont cut my self i dont show this in anyt if looked at me you would think im a normal 13 year-old but im not i thing suicied is my only option then i think of my family exspeciley my mom her and my brother been fight her and my dad been fighting hopefully suicide can help me thanks for listing

Fiending_the_freedom
July 22nd, 2008, 01:24 AM
hey there.
ok, its good you got all that off your chest.
that is definitly a lot to take at the same time, so i feel for you.
but thats just an easy answer. don't be silly and take the option that everyone has.

what have you been doing to cope with all these things so far?
do you have any hobbies?

parents fight all the time, you can't control it, it does suck and it effects you but try not to get too stressed out about things you can't control.
girls come and go, your only 13, there will be plenty of girls, and they WILL get hotter, and funnier, and nicer, so dont you worry about that.

death is hard, but a part of life, we all have to go through it, its not fun, but it makes you stronger as a person and makes you appreciate things more.

take one issue at a time, none of these things are the end of the world, and will sort them self's out in time. for now, you just have to stay strong!

what doesn't kill you makes you stronger,
things may seem bad now, but it always gets the worst before it can get better, remember that.

pm me if you ever want to talk

raiders rule
July 22nd, 2008, 01:44 AM
hey there.
ok, its good you got all that off your chest.
that is definitly a lot to take at the same time, so i feel for you.
but thats just an easy answer. don't be silly and take the option that everyone has.

what have you been doing to cope with all these things so far?
do you have any hobbies?

parents fight all the time, you can't control it, it does suck and it effects you but try not to get too stressed out about things you can't control.
girls come and go, your only 13, there will be plenty of girls, and they WILL get hotter, and funnier, and nicer, so dont you worry about that.

death is hard, but a part of life, we all have to go through it, its not fun, but it makes you stronger as a person and makes you appreciate things more.

take one issue at a time, none of these things are the end of the world, and will sort them self's out in time. for now, you just have to stay strong!

what doesn't kill you makes you stronger,
things may seem bad now, but it always gets the worst before it can get better, remember that.

pm me if you ever want to talk

Yes that sums it up beautifully, couldnt have been said any better, just remember my favorite sayin, things get the darkest before dawn:D

Atonement
July 22nd, 2008, 01:35 PM
Cutting Self-Harm --> Mental Crisis

Zan0ra
July 23rd, 2008, 03:27 AM
Your life may seem bad but look around! the world is bright and full of surprises. You never know what will come round the corner.! As for the fact you think you're gay doesn't necessarily mean you are. And even so, whats so wrong about it.?

Sapphire
July 23rd, 2008, 04:33 AM
You have in fact, answered your own question. Your family are a huge reason as to why you should opt for life. There may be arguments, but that doesn't mean that they don't love you.

What about friends? Do you have friends that you enjoy hanging out with?

As XGeekxInxDisguiseX has put it, girls come and go. None of them are worth killing yourself over.

Sexuality is one of those things that is up in the air for a lot of teenagers. A lot of it is due to the hormones that are raging through your body. Try to just step back a little. You may be gay, but at the same time you may not be so try to just go with the flow.

Mr. Smithers
July 24th, 2008, 01:01 AM
Yes you are just going to have to calm yourself down. So much is going through your mind right now and your scared, and that is alright. You will meet new people, you will come to accept yourself for who you are, and you will move on with life. You sound very devoted to your family and you should stick to that.