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amIweird
July 21st, 2008, 01:09 AM
Ok, so when I'm not "in the mood", I'm a perfectly normal guy. But when I'm really REALLY horny I do crazy things like talk to older guys online and get pics. I know it's totally illegal, and it feels like I'm the sickest guys on earth. I send them pics to, but I never put my face in the pics, give them my phone# or address, I only give them my email. Could they still somehow harm me? and should I stop? HALP! :confused:

justwondering1995
July 21st, 2008, 01:11 AM
yeah you should definitley stop. You never know. and no offense but are you gay?

amIweird
July 21st, 2008, 01:14 AM
I'm bi...and yah I should stop

crash007
July 21st, 2008, 01:15 AM
Ya i would stop. You never know how people can get a hold of kids these days. I know its addicting but it is in your best interest to stop.

raiders rule
July 21st, 2008, 01:16 AM
i think its in your best interests to stop..Now.

Oblivion
July 21st, 2008, 01:31 AM
I would say its safest just to stop.
If you really need pics try something thats not interactive (that they dont know you)

amIweird
July 21st, 2008, 01:32 AM
ok thx :)

justwondering1995
July 21st, 2008, 01:37 AM
well, I sorta Have the same problem. I always am looking at gay porn and im perfectly straight! but i worry that ill turn gay in high school

rockrxon
July 21st, 2008, 01:57 AM
I have the same problem...
It si just addicting!

Joshie
July 21st, 2008, 02:09 AM
i would stop if i was u and dose it turn u on talkin to these guys if so find somthing else that turns u on

Antares
July 21st, 2008, 03:56 AM
Giving out personal information on the internet is a very bad choice. I couldn't understand if you said you did give them your number and stuff or not. However if you did this is a very bad choice and you should change your number. Same with your address you need to tell your parents if you gave your address to someone over the web. There are very crazy people out there that harm teens. Has anyone ever seen To Catch a Preditor (spelling) on MSNBC and DatelineNBC? Yeah that is a prime example. So in conclusion, one of the elementrary rules of the web is to not give out your personal inforumation to people that can hunt you down. Also, if you have done so then you need to take precautions against that person trying to find you.

raiders rule
July 21st, 2008, 04:00 AM
yeah that show is pretty cool, sick people though, sick people.

BlackBetty
July 21st, 2008, 08:42 AM
yeah you should definitley stop. You never know. and no offense but are you gay?

That wasn't nice.

But, I would stop. They maybe able to trace your email address to your home address... Be careful.. This would be a hard thing for me to tell to my parents..:yes:;)

Antares
July 21st, 2008, 01:19 PM
That wasn't nice.

But, I would stop. They maybe able to trace your email address to your home address... Be careful.. This would be a hard thing for me to tell to my parents..:yes:;)

That was fine. He was asking a perfectly valid question and he even mentioned that he wasn't trying to be mean.

byee
July 21st, 2008, 01:30 PM
The answers to your questions are : 'Yes' you should stop immediately, and 'Yes' this can cause problems for you.

The issue isn't that you're aroused by same sex pics, the issue is that you're looking for it, live, on line, with real people older than you. That all changes things dramatically, it makes you far more vulnerable b/c you're seeing all of this as 'real', these are real people you're exchanging the pics with. The fact that they(and you) are nameless and faceless is irrelevant, and that's why you have such a strong feeling of wrongfulness about it. It's very personal, too personal.

Stop doing this, abandon that e mail account, and take it down a notch or two.

BlackBetty
July 21st, 2008, 03:02 PM
That was fine. He was asking a perfectly valid question and he even mentioned that he wasn't trying to be mean.

Well, I didn't know.

~John~

Dragon Fire
July 30th, 2008, 06:37 AM
STOP.. only word for it.. like seriously even though ur only giving out ur e-mail they can still track your IP address and find out where u computer is located and find u that way..

Zan0ra
July 30th, 2008, 06:49 AM
Dude your in serious business! do you know haw many pedofiles and rapists are on those types of sites?!?!?!?!

Sapphire
July 30th, 2008, 06:53 AM
I personally don't see much of a problem with it if you are single, don't give out phone numbers or addresses, it stays as purely an online thing and you are emotionally alright with it. You are obviously distressed by the fact that you do this so you really should stop.

I'm not sure if you are addicted to it or would find it hard to stop doing.
If you think it would be fairly easy to stop doing then going "cold turkey" would be best and its quickest.
However, if you are addicted then I would advise you to gradually reduce the number of times you do it. For example, lets say that you do it before going to bed every night. Every other night find something else to do like watching a bit of TV or reading. Then gradually down to every third and so on.

Requin
July 30th, 2008, 07:25 AM
No, just STOP, now!
None of this will come to any good, but i won't go on for any longer i think you have got the picture by now. :-)

The Batman
July 30th, 2008, 11:19 AM
The question isn't should you stop because that answer is obvious, but the question is Can you stop? If you do this constantly when your horny then the problem is that you don't have that much self control while your aroused. I think you should just stick to porn while your horny and delete the guys from your contact list.

Gavin
July 31st, 2008, 07:21 AM
I Think you neeed to STOP !

How old is the OP ?

tbboltz92
September 15th, 2008, 04:15 PM
omg wtf. I think you should stop digging that ditch youve got ur self in

antimonic
September 15th, 2008, 04:27 PM
should I stop?

What answer did you seriously think people would give on here?

theOperaGhost
September 15th, 2008, 06:33 PM
Old thread, locking.