Am I gay?

[Reece]

I'm 14 and i like to shove things in my bum! it feels good. how can i do it safely?

[sean ly]

No offense but that's gay...

[Dolphus Raymond]

It's not gay. Having relationships and falling in love with other men is gay. This isn't.

Reece: Lubricant. Honestly, I've never done it, so I'm not sure what kind, but lubricant. Someone else should know.

[Oblivion]

I agree with Dolphus
Falling in love and having full sexual relationships and getting married with other men is gay.
Experimenting is not.
I haven't done it either, but make sure you have plenty of lubrication like Dolphus said, and i would advise... Taking a shower first, if you know what i mean.
Definitely don't use anything sharp, because the skin down there is very soft

[MRcongeniality]

it's just that you're going through puberty, most people get it...

[parkpark]

i was masterbateing last night but i as think of this really cute girl but i had acidently possed the tv on 2 men showering and i cumed so i was wanting to have help

[Rutherford The Brave]

No offense but that's gay...

Try posting something constructive, your not gay your just curious. Its normal.

[Maverick]

Try posting something constructive,
Its an opinion, just like yours. Just because you disagree with it doesn't make it unconstructive.

[CaptainObvious]

Its an opinion, just like yours. Just because you disagree with it doesn't make it unconstructive.

No, but the fact that it's both highly simplistic and ignorant makes it unconstructive.

OP: No, it doesn't make you gay. Anal stimulation is pleasurable.

[parkpark]

ok thanks just wanted to know

[raiders rule]

I havent done it but i dont think its gay or anything

[amIweird]

I do the exact same thing and no it doesnt make u gay. HOWEVER, I think it would be a good investment to disinfect whatever the "tool" is before and after use.

[BlackBetty]

It's not gay.

Use lubricant and lots and lots of it. And BE CAREFUL!!

[shikachunin]

I'm 14 and i like to shove things in my bum! it feels good. how can i do it safely?

If you were gay(like me), you would have physical AND mental feelings for other men. or you could bi, which would mean you have physical AND mental feelings for BOTH genders(Male(men) and female(women).

[cory taylor]

im not sure wt i am every time i masturbate i think of gay porn i sometimes watch gay porn and i want a boyfriend cuz girlfriends r just so common that having a boyfriend would be more interesting HELP!!!

[Zan0ra]

No your not gay, and I agree it is pleasurable. To a certain extent. I once placed a pen in there with no lube. It felt ok. But it wasn't the best.

bdw what is lube anyway?

[Antares]

Cory dont take over other peoples threads.

[MoveAlong]

It's not gay. Having relationships and falling in love with other men is gay. This isn't.

Finally someone explains it! :rolleyes:

No it's not gay. It's pleasurable. I mean, you like pleasuring yourself, and you're a guy, so is that gay? No. So this can't be gay...

here is an entire thread about anal masturbation; this might help answer a lot of your questions: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=25551

[poolkmnhy]

hay i done it befor i used a candel and some lostion and it just feels good

[Hippie]

No, you're not gay unless you know it mentally. I have a friend who put a pen up his anus, he told me it felt really good.


Hippie

[mr.sexy_bomb]

it does not make u gay n about having a bf just try 2 find one is a great feeling ;)