Me and my girl Friend have a problem

[mcsweeney63z]

Well me and my girl friend are hanging out soon and we been waiting to try anal sex for awhile but we have no idea what were going to use for ,i have a condom with lube on it will that be enough? i need help soon plz because were hanging out in 2 days:) Household lubes would be the best since we can't buy one.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Yeah use plenty of lube and wear a condom. I am no fan of anal sex but just be safe thats all I can tell you.

[mcsweeney63z]

I plan of doing alot of foreplay and we haven't have normal sex ( i kow werid huh) And i plan on making it really special all i need is some lube.

[Maverick]

If you're going to be having anal sex you will need to buy lube because its the only safe substance to use in that area.

[mcsweeney63z]

dam >.> i would have normal sex with her but like i'm worrie about having a baby.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Sounds like you not ready for sex.....

[Mr. Smithers]

Just practice safe sex. Which in my opinion is no sex at all.

[DarkWingedAngel]

u can use vaseline
at least that is what i would use

[tompkins182]

maybe this is something you and youre girlfriend need to work out yourself..... . .. . ... . . .

[Sapphire]

You can use extra safe condoms for anal sex. I think these are the best when having anal because they are the strongest. Buying lube would be better than using something that's just lying about the house.
If you have condoms then you can have vaginal sex without running a great risk of getting her pregnant. If there were to be a problem with that (e.g. a tear in the condom) then she could always get emergency contraception.

[Kiros]

Correct me if I'm wrong, but if you can get a condom, shouldn't you be able to get sexual lube as well? It can be found in Wal-Mart near all of the condoms. :|

All in all, for anal sex, I don't think that the condom is the big ordeal. The main worries that I've heard have all been about lubrication.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

u can use vaseline
at least that is what i would use

NO NO NO!

Never use vaseline, baby oil, or any "household" lube that you just find around your house! EVER! Chances are most of these are oil-based (like vaseline) which are NOT supposed to go in your anus, as well as they destroy the lining of a condom, which means it basically renders the condom useless!

No matter what kind of sex you plan on having, you ALWAYS need to use a condom (obviously) BUT for instances when lube is needed, the ONLY kind you can use is water-based lubricants (such as KY jelly). These are the safest to use, and won't damage a condom.

Make sure you buy lube YOURSELF, and make sure that it is WATER BASED.

[Hales]

dam >.> i would have normal sex with her but like i'm worrie about having a baby.

Even thru anal u can have a baby lol

All it takes is for it to "leak down" and get do her vag

;l I mean its unlikely, but just throwing that out there- possable

And i mean- if u arent ready for normal sex, i dont think ur ready for any sex, hun. Anal sounds like.. um... a way to get ur aggressions out w/o "worrying about a baby" or a fantasy of yours /:l

In anycase, do normal first- if u got a condom, which it seems you do, you should be okay. also if she does get pregnant, its nothing planned parenthood cant help.

bottom line, if u arent ready for the responsability and precautionaries, ur probably arent ready at all

[gookmique]

Even thru anal u can have a baby

LOL! :rolleyes:

as everyone else said, you'll need special anal lube. you really don't need to use the lube.. but it would be best for the partner on the recieving side. you wouldn't want to tear her anal tissue... could cause hemmroids! or she could bleed out of her butt!

[obsessedwithmyself]

dude use your hands of pillow it works just as fine and its fast as fuck

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Please don't bump old threads, this one is four months old.
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