Confusion is hard...

[Half Angel]

I was going out with this great girl, extremely sexy with an amazing personality...but after awhile I cheated on her with this boy at some party. I felt guilty and told her and she forgave me but like 3 months later I did it again with another boy...

So I'm confused, am I bi or gay? I mean, I still feel something for girls but the feeling for boys is more overpowering...

[NextToNormal]

you say the feeling for boys is more overpowering...is that just a physical attraction or is it emotional as well??? if its only physical, then i doubt that you are bi or gay. but if its both, then you may be bi if you still have a physical/emotional attraction to girls.
you are 14, just give things time. when the timing is right, you will know what your orientation is. until then, just be you and have fun.

[Sage]

If you truly love your girlfriend you'll stay with her. If you have a reasonable doubt about it, I'd hold off on relationships. ._.

[Zephyr]

Were you drunk at these parties?
That can have a lot to do with it.

[Mr. Smithers]

Well not really. He's talking about in general. Not just at that exact moment.

Well you just really have to go with what your body is attracted to. Think of who you would rather be in a relationship with. If its both, then your bi-sexual.

I'm pretty sure that she will forgive you if you say that you might be confused or attracted to men.

[byee]

I don't think the issue here is your sexuality, at 14 you're still figuring it out.

The issue is your ability to remain faithful to the person (of either gender) you're involved with. When you 'go out' with someone, you're making a committment to them, an 'agreement' that you're going to be with just them. You can change that, but you should really let them know before you do other stuff with someone else.

It's good to remember that there are things that are more important than sex, and if you choose to 'experiment', to be really sure that all parties concerned know what you're doing and that it's OK with them.

[crash007]

As everyone else has said you should give it some time before you try to figure out your orrientation. Do what feels right. But if you are going to experiment then be safe and think it through.