Long lost?

[teenagerughhpuberty]

ok my best friend and i have been fighting for a while now. it all started when i got a girlfriend and he thought i replaced him. but its my girlfriend she only gonna be there a small time. but then we made up. and i found out within one day he replaced me with these 2 girls. and i guess i was a lil jealous seeing since we were like brothers. but the other night i yelled at him for something he said and now we dont talk anymore and hes mad at me. i tried talking to him in AIM and he just blocks me. i feel like its over. is there anything i can do to fix the friendship?

(btw he wont answer his phone ik him like that)

[byee]

Heard this one before. Welcome to the "best friend's feeling abandoned club b/c you've got yourself a girlfriend". Get used to it.

Nothing can sour a good friendship more than abandonment, that awful feeling that you've been replaced as the 'besty' by a girlfriend.

What to do? make really sure you spend time with your guy friends and make sure you reassure them that they're still besty's. Balance your time b'twn 'her' and 'them', try to avoid looking like you've dropped them for 'her'.

Now, all you can do is try to get a note or something to him and grovel a bit, talk about how much you miss his friendship (or however you;re comfortable expressing that), and tell him you want to still be his friend, etc., etc.

Most people come to their senses after a while, but sometimes, the insult is so great that they cannot. The only way to get the odds in your favor is to get that note to him ASAP.

[raiders rule]

Show him that you still want him as your best friend, make him feel that he hasnt been replaced, that can be a hurtful feeling, trust me.