Flirting...

[BlackenedSilver]

I have completely lost confidence in myself and my flirting. The last guy I flirted with didnt take any notice of me when I did and thats when I lost confidence in it. He later then came out as gay, I realised it was him not me but I just cant get my confidence back.
Im going to a party this weekend and I wondered if anyone has any techniques to help me. Please and thank you. :D
xxxxx :wub:

[Gumleaf]

well from a guy's perspective, sometimes we are so blind (apparently lol) that we don't even realise when girls are flirting. i find the comparison hard to find between friendlness and flirting. so don't be hard on yourself, maybe you just have to spell things out to the guys more.

[raiders rule]

yeah hes right we can be pretty blind sometimes, it can be hard to tell if they are just being nice or a friend or if they are flirting

[BlackenedSilver]

lol well I managed to get a kinda date with help from my friend! I just finished talking t his guy b4 he left and my frend just shoved my phone in hs face said, "theres leigh's numer if you want it!" anyway he took it and now I have been texting him and talking to him on msn ever since!!! yay!! and have a kinda group date with him on thursday!!
xxx

[Gumleaf]

lol well I managed to get a kinda date with help from my friend! I just finished talking t his guy b4 he left and my frend just shoved my phone in hs face said, "theres leigh's numer if you want it!" anyway he took it and now I have been texting him and talking to him on msn ever since!!! yay!! and have a kinda group date with him on thursday!!
xxx

well thats good news leigh. have fun on your group date. :D

[BlackenedSilver]

Thanks!! I shall!
I have also been out with him and my friends today. I told him after that he was getting along well with one of my friends and he said "I knew her ages ago but theres nothing between us dont worry" Eventhough, We havnt even been on the date thing yet, so it shows he likes me and thinks I like him!!!
xxx