rape

[iceyfresh]

a girl i really care about and like has been calling my alot while im walking home from school telling me where she is and telling me shes is about to be raped. so i have been running my ass off to help her and its been happening alot because she lives in a bad neighborhood. i really like her:wub: and she wont tell anyone but me.:( Should i tell police or what because some day im sure im guna run to help her and end up geting shot. should i tell the police?:confused:

[Techno Monster]

If it is the same people over and over, you should report them.

[DarkWingedAngel]

i would call the police and repot them
but that is just me

[byee]

This is a terrible spot for both of you to be in. For her, it's unsafe. For you, you've got this horrible info, along with her confidence b/c you're the only one she tells, and you don't know what to do to protect her b/c it might involve breaking that confidence.

Since this sounds like she's threatened a lot, here's a rule of thumb: If there's imminent danger, if you're pretty sure she's about to be physically harmed, you have to call the police. Your priority is to protect your friend, even if that means violating their confidence and telling someone, and maybe losing her friendship. Better to lose that, then have her lose her life.

If she's being threatened 'only', then you can talk with her about a plan when she brings this to your attention. The 2 of you need to agree on how such info should be handled, and in the absence of actual physical harm, what she wants you to do. Why is she telling you and what are her expectations? See if those are agreeable to you.

I think that danger is danger, there's no way of really predicting when the cobra will strike, you know, so I think you might want to help her assess the risk and the need for outside intervention, and help make that happen.

[DarkWingedAngel]

This is a terrible spot for both of you to be in. For her, it's unsafe. For you, you've got this horrible info, along with her confidence b/c you're the only one she tells, and you don't know what to do to protect her b/c it might involve breaking that confidence.

Since this sounds like she's threatened a lot, here's a rule of thumb: If there's imminent danger, if you're pretty sure she's about to be physically harmed, you have to call the police. Your priority is to protect your friend, even if that means violating their confidence and telling someone, and maybe losing her friendship. Better to lose that, then have her lose her life.

If she's being threatened 'only', then you can talk with her about a plan when she brings this to your attention. The 2 of you need to agree on how such info should be handled, and in the absence of actual physical harm, what she wants you to do. Why is she telling you and what are her expectations? See if those are agreeable to you.

I think that dnager is danger, there's no way of really predicting when the cobra will strike, you know, so I think you might want to help her assess the risk and the need for outside intervention, and help make that happen.

well said rep+

[Oblivion]

This is a terrible spot for both of you to be in. For her, it's unsafe. For you, you've got this horrible info, along with her confidence b/c you're the only one she tells, and you don't know what to do to protect her b/c it might involve breaking that confidence.

Since this sounds like she's threatened a lot, here's a rule of thumb: If there's imminent danger, if you're pretty sure she's about to be physically harmed, you have to call the police. Your priority is to protect your friend, even if that means violating their confidence and telling someone, and maybe losing her friendship. Better to lose that, then have her lose her life.

If she's being threatened 'only', then you can talk with her about a plan when she brings this to your attention. The 2 of you need to agree on how such info should be handled, and in the absence of actual physical harm, what she wants you to do. Why is she telling you and what are her expectations? See if those are agreeable to you.

I think that dnager is danger, there's no way of really predicting when the cobra will strike, you know, so I think you might want to help her assess the risk and the need for outside intervention, and help make that happen.

I agree 100%
You really need to call the police if you are both in harms way

[iceyfresh]

ok thx i called this morning