im scared

[wilmarth628]

i am scared about ejaculating

should i be

why or why not

[Oblivion]

Why are you scared?

[BlackBetty]

Yes, why??

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Um... you don't need to be? Does that help? lol

[Ryandel]

When you start masturbating it is a new and sometimes disturbing experience. Your body is still developing, and ejaculation can sometimes be an uncomfortable or even painful experience. I think the best thing you can do is relax about the whole thing. If you don't feel comfortable ejaculating, just masturbate until you feel you are ready to stop. There's no rule that says you have to ejaculate! You're still young and when you and your body are ready, you'll have no problem masturbating & ejaculating as often as you like. For the record, I also ejaculated for the first time when I was twelve, so I can understand how you're probably feeling. Good luck!

-Alex D

[Tis_Sam]

Just don't get yourself in the eye and you'll be fine :cool:

[Bryan B]

scared ? Of what or why?

[wilmarth628]

When you start masturbating it is a new and sometimes disturbing experience. Your body is still developing, and ejaculation can sometimes be an uncomfortable or even painful experience. I think the best thing you can do is relax about the whole thing. If you don't feel comfortable ejaculating, just masturbate until you feel you are ready to stop. There's no rule that says you have to ejaculate! You're still young and when you and your body are ready, you'll have no problem masturbating & ejaculating as often as you like. For the record, I also ejaculated for the first time when I was twelve, so I can understand how you're probably feeling. Good luck!

-Alex D

Thanks that was a big help

[Maxismax123]

I was scared, but trust me... im not scared anymore!

[notsure101]

my friend that is a girl is afraid of

1.Sex
2.Fingering
3.Penis's
4.Period
5.This is a key one- Kissing

Why are you scared? The mess?

[ThatCanadianGuy]

my friend that is a girl is afraid of

1.Sex
2.Fingering
3.Penis's
4.Period
5.This is a key one- Kissing

Why are you scared? The mess?

Was she sexually abused when she was younger? I can't see why that would happen without some kind of outside influence; at least if she's just asexual (no sexual preference) she would just have no desire for sexual things; she wouldn't be SCARED.

[wilmarth628]

iam scared of it hurting

[Nighter]

iam scared of it hurting

It doesn't hurt.

[Maxismax123]

iam scared of it hurting



I was exactly the same way. Just take a deep breathe before you start and just go at it, slowly. Soak in it.

[BlackBetty]

iam scared of it hurting

I promise you, it will not hurt. If it did, thenwhy would we do it daily??

[MRcongeniality]

just remember that around every single second, another boy is most probably j/o and ejaculating that very second, if that makes you feel better.

[dope]

jerking off and cumin is the best f**kin thing in a guys life!!!