intercourse

[iceyfresh]

me and my girlfriend want to have sex im not shure if im ready to have sex with her its only been a month so i dont know what to say to her any advice?:(

[Gumleaf]

if you feel you aren't ready, then you need to tell her that. if she respects you, then she'll be ok with it. having sex is a big thing and is something you shouldn't do until you are ready.

[iceyfresh]

i know but i dont want her mad at me if i told her that it would be kind of aukward and we might brake up and i really like her i just hate rushing things.

[Gumleaf]

i know but i dont want her mad at me if i told her that it would be kind of aukward and we might brake up and i really like her i just hate rushing things.

well if she really likes you, then she shouldn't mind if you're not ready. if she is rushing you and not respecting how you feel then i would think she isn't worth it, not matter how much you like her. sex is a big step and shouldn't be rushed into no matter how much either her or you want to start doing it.

[iceyfresh]

thx for the advise

[Oblivion]

I agree with Stephen
If you arent ready dont do it
Sex is a big thing, and if she doesnt respect your decision to take it slow, then she probably isnt one you want to lose your virginity to

[byee]

Well, then, I agree with Stephen and Nick. If you're not ready, that's Ok. Doing something as big as sex just b/c it's available isn't necessarily the best reason to do it. Tell her you're not ready yet.

[crash007]

Ya if your not ready then don't do it cause you wont feel comfortable and it will be awkward. so tell her now that your not comfortable with having sex yet because its only been a month. if she truly loves you she will respect your decision to wait.

[Nihilus]

wait if you don't feel up to it. Tell ur gf....

[iceyfresh]

thx everyone

[DarkWingedAngel]

if u feel the need to ask people this then u r not ready
that is all i can say

[bjjb101]

if you havent been in the relationship for at least a year i dont think you should do it.also think about if you love her and think youll be with her for a long time

[dmeek7]

well...um...if ur not ready then no one can force u to have sex...but if u want to and she wants to ......be sure to be safe and use a condem

[BigE69er]

Me and my gf recently had sex and im 15, and it was the biggest mistake of my life

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Me and my gf recently had sex and im 15, and it was the biggest mistake of my life

Why exactly? (just for the OP, it might help him make his decision) was it an emotionally damaging thing for your relationship or something?