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Whisper
October 18th, 2005, 08:14 AM
Whats your definition of a parent?
What is there responsibility to the child?
Have your parents threatened to kick you out?
Do you live in fear of being kicked out?

Do you think its fair of them to abaondon there child? negating there responsibility

<-Dying_to_Live->
October 18th, 2005, 08:45 AM
well when 2 people decide to have a kid, theyre signing up for the hardest job of all time

but then again they cant just cop out on it. their job is to make their children hapyp and successful NO MATTER WHAT, even at the expense of their wellbeing and happiness. theyre supposed to be willing to die in order to preserve your life

kolte
October 18th, 2005, 10:21 AM
well when 2 people decide to have a kid, theyre signing up for the hardest job of all time

but then again they cant just cop out on it. their job is to make their children hapyp and successful NO MATTER WHAT, even at the expense of their wellbeing and happiness. theyre supposed to be willing to die in order to preserve your life

I do not agree with that at all. Its a parents JOB to ready you for reality. And then slowly introduce you the the real world. The older you get, the more and more responsibilites you are supposed to accompllish, and then at 17 ro 18 its time for you to move out yourself. Love is a major factor, but your parents have thier lives as well, And Even though my mother has sacrificed much for me, I do not expect her to give up her future so I can happy. NO. Its my job to get myself into college. I will get the scholership, I will get the car myself. I'm not expecting her to do more then she allready is. Mommy and Daddy won't allways be their to bail you out.

redcar
October 18th, 2005, 10:21 AM
my definition of a parent is someone who cares and loves for a child and would protect them at all costs.

there responsilbility to the child is to make them feel safe and do there best for them.

i have never been threatened to be be kicked out and i dont live in fear of that either.

as for abandon it can be good and bad, abandoning a child can do more good to the child in the long run, in some cases.

nwshc
October 18th, 2005, 02:46 PM
A parent is someone who puts a roof over your head and food on the table.

I'm not very good with this stuff.

Hi i am jon
October 18th, 2005, 04:46 PM
my definition of a parent is some one who is there to protect you, give you food shelter, and is doing what they can to give you those needs...

but its their choice to show you love and all that nice stuff, not their responsiblity....

i have never been kicked out but my oldest sister was often kicked out by my dad but then let back in by my mom, now my mom kicked my other sister out.....

i have no fear of being kicked out because it takes soo much for my mom to kick some one out

the last question is not a complete question, it depends on what the kid does....like one of my sisters and my dad just didnt get along.....my other sister terrorized the family......so it all depends on what the situation is...if the two dont get along no they shouldnt be able to get kicked out, if they terrorize the family of course kick them out to teach them a lesson..

serial-thrilla
October 18th, 2005, 06:05 PM
I'm 13, so this is kinda weird comin from me:

Parents are supposed to unconditonally love a child without strings attached. They are supposed to love a child, physically and emotionally.

At 12 I was kicked out. I lived with my sister for about four months.

My mom told me to come back right b4 my 13th bday in July.

Sometimes I live in fear of my dad telling me to leave again. This time, my sis lives here, so I dunno where I'd go.

Parents shouldn't neglect their responsibility what did you do to get kicked out?

<-Dying_to_Live->
October 18th, 2005, 06:33 PM
I'm 13, so this is kinda weird comin from me:

Parents are supposed to unconditonally love a child without strings attached. They are supposed to love a child, physically and emotionally.

At 12 I was kicked out. I lived with my sister for about four months.

My mom told me to come back right b4 my 13th bday in July.

Sometimes I live in fear of my dad telling me to leave again. This time, my sis lives here, so I dunno where I'd go.

Parents shouldn't neglect their responsibility

next time your parents kick you out, tell them they are breaking the law and dial 911

redcar
October 18th, 2005, 06:36 PM
or in europe diall 112

<-Dying_to_Live->
October 18th, 2005, 06:45 PM
ya that too... i just assumed u lived in the states

redcar
October 18th, 2005, 06:49 PM
i thought it was greece!! :D

serial-thrilla
October 19th, 2005, 08:21 PM
I'm 13, so this is kinda weird comin from me:

Parents are supposed to unconditonally love a child without strings attached. They are supposed to love a child, physically and emotionally.

At 12 I was kicked out. I lived with my sister for about four months.

My mom told me to come back right b4 my 13th bday in July.

Sometimes I live in fear of my dad telling me to leave again. This time, my sis lives here, so I dunno where I'd go.

Parents shouldn't neglect their responsibility what did you do to get kicked out? well im not too surprised that you did get kicked out.

My dad was being a dick, and I told him to fuck off and die. Then, he came across the room, acted like he was gonna slug me, then I swung my fist at him.....

From there, he told me to get the fuck out.

By the way, I live in America. I don't blame my mom, there was no way she could leave him.....she still hasnt

But shes going to, soon =)

TheWizard
October 20th, 2005, 08:03 AM
My mom is a great parent. My dad is ashame of me for being schizo. I hardly ever have any contact with him

My brothers are just like my Dad. They hate me.

Hi i am jon
October 21st, 2005, 05:30 PM
god people just be happy both your parents are alive, make peace with them and dont respond no i hope they die, just think of what you accomplish by hating then?....nothing, so go make peace with them, you have nothin to lose

Whisper
October 21st, 2005, 07:36 PM
I wish i was never born

<-Dying_to_Live->
October 21st, 2005, 08:25 PM
well im glad you were! /__sticks out tongue__\

kolte
October 21st, 2005, 08:29 PM
well im glad you were! /__sticks out tongue__\

kevin
October 21st, 2005, 10:05 PM
I wish i was never born

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