View Full Version : thats cute....now stop flirting with me
ShatteredWings
July 12th, 2008, 07:25 PM
Simple question, how do make a guy stop flirting? i woud't call it 'harrasment' quite, but its kinda annoying..
or is this something i should ignore from a 15y/o guy...
MrPinnick17
July 12th, 2008, 07:34 PM
Let him know up front your not feeling him. I mean I hate to be vague but you girls know just the way to tear us guys down with little or not effort at all.
It could be friendly flirting, but if it's annoying to you and you want it to stop, don't respond to it, say things that are negative but still semi-friendly. I'm not sure if he's touching you in a way that you don't like or what, but I've seen plenty of girls tell guys to stop touching them, and they bounce right off.
Nobody deserves to have anything done to them that they don't want.
ShatteredWings
July 12th, 2008, 07:45 PM
haha. yes we can be vindctave sometimes [i try to be nice]
hm, okays :P
Techno Monster
July 12th, 2008, 07:56 PM
I make a face like :ohmy: That works.
Ryandel
July 13th, 2008, 02:00 AM
"I'm sorry, but I really don't feel a spark" - That should start the convo off.
-Alex D
kerry
July 13th, 2008, 02:40 AM
Tell him how you are feeling and what you want
crash007
July 13th, 2008, 03:47 AM
tell him to stop or he will think its working and will, in return keep doing it.
dudesweet101
July 13th, 2008, 10:29 AM
Sometimes I get really into girls that I like. I mean i cant help it. It just cause he really likes u.
Gumleaf
July 13th, 2008, 05:01 PM
i think gywm you just need to make sure he knows you aren't interested. possibly try ignoring him, or if that doesn't work, then pull him aside sometime and just tell him you aren't interested. that should make him stop then because just the fact he has been rejected will make him stop.
ShatteredWings
July 14th, 2008, 07:23 AM
i LOVE how people spell my name here lol. hey, i haven't gotten a single 'gwen' yet so im happy :P
haha, if it keeps up ill just tell him to quit it....
Electric Cheese
July 14th, 2008, 09:55 AM
well gwyns quite a popular name here in wales, so it's quite commonplace for me.
my advice: either be blunt ("I'm not interested") or sugar coat it a little ("listen, I think you're a good friend, but I just want to keep it that way").
But if it's a person you don't know, just ignore it or be blunt
Close102
July 14th, 2008, 04:16 PM
just put him down so that he cant get up (metiforically) or else he may come back because the rejection may not be strong enough. that is like the only thing that would make me stop flirting with a girl.
ShatteredWings
July 14th, 2008, 04:24 PM
haha
nice to see the thoughts of guys on this subjeect...so i don't act like a bitch by accident
iceyfresh
July 14th, 2008, 09:54 PM
tell him you dont have feelings for him and you would apreceate if he would leave you alone
dmeek7
July 17th, 2008, 08:57 PM
just let him know that u dont like him.........be harsh....cuz we guys.....(well some).....are ok with harsh...we get over it
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