gf tips

[Kuervo]

ok so im 14 and i still ahven't gotten a gf. i was wondering if some of you could give tips on getting

[LeRoy_Fan]

And I'm 16 and still don't have one.

There are many tips out there, but, obviously, none of the ones I've ever heard helped, so I won't repeat those.

Biggest thing is staying true to who you are. Don't change for a girl.

(move to relationships/dating forum?)

[Patchy]

Moved to Relationships and Dating.

[kerry]

the best tips are :
- act yourself around a girl you like
- never be someone you are not
- be with the girl
- go out places

[Rutherford The Brave]

I have five tips for you.
1. Be yourself
2. Be yourself
3. Be yourself
4. Be yourself
5. Be yourself
Hoped that helped.

[kerry]

I have five tips for you.
1. Be yourself
2. Be yourself
3. Be yourself
4. Be yourself
5. Be yourself
Hoped that helped.

they are the best tips

[Sporadica]

a few things on this topic.

1. Girls don't like ppl who aren't who they are
2. You are only 14 (So am I) and the thing is, dating at this time in school/life is actually most of the time to get attention
3. One thing is you can't just be like "well they should like me for who I am" no, it don't work. I at least try and I ask, if i get rejected, i wait a few days/weeks then go ask another girl, in the meantime I keep up to looking good, look strong, looking respectable and that I give respect and just let the girls look at me and see if they like me or not. (you gotta put your work in too)
4. If u do manage to get a chick dont take her to fast food, even go to like red lobtser or montanas or something man, i went to montanas and 6 ppl only costed my parents $75 (good quality food btw) and where I live i got a cool restaraunt, just a 5 minute walk downtown, and a kickass steak is only $10 (again, good quality/Grade A) so u can treat her to nice food, and talk to her
5. U may hear the "I just like sensitive men no jerks" not true, be a tough guy but don't go throw her into a wall, just like ignore her like a few times a day when she says hi or looks at you. (p.s. don't be super jerk like bullying, and if she says she doesnt like u cuz ur not tough enough for her, shes not good for you anyway)
6. but once u got her be the nice guy, smother her with gifts, compliments, and praise. And if you get into an argument, dont walk away (shows cowardness) just be quiet for a few mins, leave the room to calm down, then walk back in and talk nicley and apologize
7. If anyone trys to get her away from you, dont go and fight him just say "ahem, Sorry dude(s), shes with me"
8 (additional pick up thing). Ask her to a dance and if she liked being with you then just ask "hey you wanna go out sometime?"

hope that helps :)

[bagman]

ask her out for pizza or movie on first date.

[Random_oso06]

1. the most important one be your self
2. try to be a gentleman
3. if you like someone don't act tough
4. don't get your ego the best of you
5. if you want to ask someone out plan your words before you say it so you won't say anything stupid
6. if your going on a date don't go some were cheap like a coupon dinner or the dollar movies
7. open her seat before yours
8.walk her home if your only together
hope this help :)

[iceyfresh]

from what ive noticed girls hate it when you dont be yourself

[dmeek7]

ok....so..i dont have one at this time....but i have had one....and i have friends that are girls.....so...first of all...u got to like a girl......then....u gotta be their friend....but not to close or they will not want to go out wif u in fear of losing friendship......next....u gotta tell her how u feel......tell her shes beautiful and funny and smart and u dont deserve her......then u tell her......then depending on what she says........wait a few weeks...no matter what she says....then......out of no where ask her out in person......be confident...girls like confidence......act sad 2 tho....that might not make sence....but it works...then ask her the question....."i dont know if u would ever considering me but would u like to go out wif me....." and there u go..........

[Never_Forget]

Just wait. Wait for that perfect person. Hey, it might not even be a girl! But really, like everone else said, BE YOURSELF or I'll hunt you down and kill you in your sleep.
Also, don't get someone else to tell her you love her, and don't tell anyone else before her. This isn't only about you, it's about that perfect person too. How would you feel if you loved someone and didn't know that they loved you too and then their best friend comes and tells you how he/she feels. He loves you but trusts his best friend more? That's not love.
Anyway, yes, be yourself, be confident, and wait.
And all that time lost waiting will be made up some day.
You just wait =]