The Talk

[The Batman]

I myself have never had "The Talk" with my parents, but my brother has. I don't know how I learned about sex but somehow I know. How many of you have had "The Talk" aka "The Birds and the Bees"?

[Atonement]

I havent, but my house is very open about sex, so its kinda hard to not know this kinda stuff. Plus, the internet, society, and my older brothers kinda give it away. My innocence is gone!

[emecrazy]

HA i had the talk when my mom thought i was out having sex all the time... it was awkward but not cause it wasnt really The Talk... ha she just said like dont have sex without a condom... if u want me to buy u a box i will adn i wont look to see how many are gone... we just dont want any lil erik's runnin around
haha i just laughed n said ok.. and they talked abot Std's n all that
its not as bad as i would of thought

[DarkWingedAngel]

wow my mom was like i forbid u to have sex untill u have kids and then i was like ya what ever (in my head i was saying just shut the hell up alredy) and then she started talkin on and on about it realy awkward
but i did not listen to her anyways

[george]

Lol no I've never had dun dun dun..."The Talk."

My innocence is gone!
What innocence? lol jk :D

[NextToNormal]

no, i never got "the talk" my sisters did though. my twin had to get it because she is so damn boy crazy and my parents were worried that she would go out and do something dumb. they told me i was smart enough to figure this stuff out on my own...im glad they never gave me the talk. normal conversations with my parents are awkward. so that one would have been way beyond the line of awkward.

[MrPinnick17]

I don't think my parents really care enough to take the time to let me know that I should wait to have sex until I'm in a stable relationship because of the consequences. I've already had sex, and pretty much learned everything I need to know from books and experience.

I can only imagine how uncomfortable it would be hearing this stuff from your parents but you all should take the time to listen and embrace the fact that you have someone, who has had lots of life experience that you can ask questions to. It's a bonding experience, that I can only dream of having.

[Texmex21]

My younger bro and sister both had da talk but that waz only because they wanted to have it. I never did

[MattHutzell]

I have. Nothing special about it. Still wish it was my dad though, but he passed away. I think mothers should talk to daughters, and fathers to sons. But ya it was nothin special.

[Rutherford The Brave]

never had it, mainly because my step-mom was more concerned about getting me killed. Than worrying about my health; sexually.

[Zephyr]

None of the above.

No, and my parents have never felt the need to talk to me about such things because they know that I'm responsible and that I can easily figure stuff out on my own. I've always been the independent low-maintenence child. They know that I'll ask them anything that I don't know about already.

[ShatteredWings]

uh...yes...i was frekin eight

didn't tell me much tho...just the BARE basics..and that i shouldn't have sex =/


[reason for so young, my brother was born just after my 8th birthday]

[Requin]

No, thank god. I knew about it anyway so...
No loss. Personally sometimes i think the parents find it alot harder and are more worried about it than we are.
Ironic. :-)

[Camazotz]

Yes, I have. I dont see what the big deal is. We all know what sex is and what happens during puberty anyway, its not really akward, but its not cool either. So I just said None of the Above.

[Techno Monster]

Yes, I have had it FOREVER ago...

[Tis_Sam]

No. Weird really isn't it. How in the past "The talk" was a big thing. But now we just somehow pick things up as we age. With Tv, Internet and to be fair a less polite enviroment? lol :cool:

[bella24]

i have it was REALLY weird!!!
my mom was out of town so my dad did it.he was all like "it's how a man and woman express themselves when they feel a sexual attraction with each other.:eek:

[Close102]

i did and it was awkward. and then i got a book about it.

[DarkWingedAngel]

i new the day my mom was goin to give me the talk because she got alot of books that said how to talk to your teen about sex or how to bring up "the talk"
so when i saw them i ran for the hills

[robbiehay1]

wow my mom was like i forbid u to have sex untill u have kids and then i was like ya what ever (in my head i was saying just shut the hell up alredy) and then she started talkin on and on about it realy awkward
but i did not listen to her anyways

um that doesnt make sense - you need to have sex to get kids

[DarkWingedAngel]

um that doesnt make sense - you need to have sex to get kids

ya i no my mom is crazy:eek::confused::eek::confused::eek:

[Brazdar]

I had never "The Talk", I never considered I need to ask my parents anything about the subject, anyways two weeks ago while talking with my mom, from topic to topic she told me that if i'm embarassed to buy myself condoms she'll buy them for me, just to tell her when it's needed, 'cause she said the condoms may expire too, so it's useless to keep them to much :| ( is that true, or she's just teasing me?)