whats the rush?!

[Sunnygurl3911]

there have been a lot of ppl complaining about not having a relationship and then there have been a lot of ppl asking them well whats the rush. i will tell you what the rush is. i hope i am speaking for everybody when i say that all i want is comfort. i com from a nice loving family but u cant tell them everything. yea i have close friends but you cant tell them everything. i want someone there that i can tell everything to and they will be there to support me and i want someone to be able to just chill with. i just want someone.

[Elokyn]

Everybody wants comfort but for one of your priorities to be getting a bf/gf honestly really makes it look like you're not ready, or mature enough for a relationship.

[Whisper]

Sunnygurl I don't blaim you
I wouldn't mind a gf

Just having someone there that you can tell everything to
that's there for you always
No secrets
no anger, pain or shame
someone that cares about you
and would do anything they could to help and protect you

someone that means the world to you
that you would do anything to help
anything to protect them

Its not all fun n games
you're taking a big risk and sooner or later you will get hurt
but if you ask me the rewards would be worth the risk
and i'd jump off that cliff in a heartbeat


Weither you're mature enough to handle a relationship is up to you n whoever you go out with
every person is diffrent
every situation is diffrent
nobody but you can judge you because nobody but you knows whats in your heart
If it works out great
If it dosen't oh well

Least you tried...least you know

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

i com from a nice loving family but u cant tell them everything. yea i have close friends but you cant tell them everything. i want someone there that i can tell everything to and they will be there to support me and i want someone to be able to just chill with. i just want someone.

for me those people are cody and rudi

[Jazbo]

I've been single for almost 6 years now... I really don't mind. I find relationships really troublesome and I find myself unable to be bale to make those commitments and see them through. So, I am a swinger you can say, I tend to just swing from girl to girl having no real commitment. Maybe I will find a gril some day who thinks like me and realizes dating doesn't mean we're married.

Oh yeah, mind you I don't get much often... so don't go thinking I am some sort of player/guy who takes advantage of women; its just been the trend for me as of late...

To finalize this, I guess I am getting at comforting yourself is best. You are with you 100% of the time, you're your best companion.

[bbychop]

I've had relationships just to have one and honestly it isn't pretty. I mean, I'd love to have a bf but wait til the right one comes along.