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Mannequin
July 8th, 2008, 05:27 PM
1. don't treat me like i am different
2. don't constantly ask if i think this or this guy is hot. i may be gay, but i have other interests.
3. dont assume i want to walk with your fat ass into a clothing store to be your shopping buddy.
4. dont expect me to be as sympathetic as a female. i am still a man. i am lazy and careless.
5. overly gay music, kissing for shits and giggles, and taking pictures of me for exploitation purposes isn't fun.

you guys get the point...does this bother any of you or is it just me?

MoveAlong
July 8th, 2008, 07:38 PM
Honestly I haven't been out, so nobody has done any of that to me. But 1, 2, 4, and 5 would bother me. I would help someone shop (not constantly) but shopping is kinda fun. And I disagree with that male stereotype. But yeah

emecrazy
July 8th, 2008, 09:38 PM
hah YESS this girl was like does this look good onn me does this what should i get?? ur bi so u should have a good sense of fashion.... i was like uhh no..
and always being asked if this guy is hot or this one is rather annoying
but since i am bi i do wanna kiss for shits n giggles haha
but most girls expect me to become a girl in a mans body
hah no im a man im gonna act like one....

Dante
July 9th, 2008, 10:14 AM
i agree with this post.

Medical Kid
July 9th, 2008, 10:22 AM
you know this is a good topic, gays shouldnt be thought to do all of that, kudos to you Mannequin :D

Mannequin
July 9th, 2008, 04:33 PM
glad to get a positive feedback.
feel free to make this a listing type thing.

mr.sexy_bomb
July 10th, 2008, 03:22 AM
i do like it but sometimes i dont depends on the action

Sugaree
July 10th, 2008, 02:39 PM
hah YESS this girl was like does this look good onn me does this what should i get?? ur bi so u should have a good sense of fashion.... i was like uhh no.

Ha! She really said that? That's a negative sterotype. It's like saying that straight guys don't have emotions and don't show them. That's also like saying that if a person is gay then that means that they have a good sense of fashion and all that.

Another negative would probably be if a woman was a lesbian then that means that they act like a man. There are so many negative sterotypes.


i do like it but sometimes i dont depends on the action

Action? What do you mean? Like sex? Explain please.

Craig1995
December 30th, 2010, 08:20 PM
Personally only 1 would bother me but I can see how the rest would bother some people. But I'm not out so people don't treat me different.

ShatteredWings
December 30th, 2010, 08:29 PM
bump from over a year ago, locking