I screwed up my life.

[Manifest Destiny]

I'm 14 and I did something stupid.
I played this game and met this boy, and we dated over the internet for a year.
We broke up in like november, and I'm so depressed. We'd been off and on during november - feb and then he just broke my heart when he decided to choose some girl who treats him like crap over me! So i was calm and all nice to him and he treated me like poo. It's not July and I'm so depressed. I feel like i've lost everything without him, all my friends..EVERYTHING. I've tried talking to him but he just blocks me and calls me names. My friends ask him stuff and he doesn't remember why we broke up, and he's not even hurt. He thinks i put my friends up to mess with him. I don't! I want him back so badly...But I've lied to much to him in the past to impress him. I came clean to him, though. Yet he always brings it back on me. how can I get him back? Or atleast get over him? I've tried eeeeeeeeeverything. I can't get over him. :/

[DarkWingedAngel]

here is an idea ask a guy out to make him jelous (srry if it's missplled)
that is what i would do

[Manifest Destiny]

No one like even wants to go out with me right now. I don't see people from school cuz i live so far away. :x
Plus, it's not like he would know.

[DarkWingedAngel]

ok so just forget about him he is not worth your time if he dumps u for some who treats him like crap

[byee]

It takes time to get over things. Give it time.

In the meanwhile, try not to beat yourself up, what happened, happened. You can't change the past, you can only learn from it. See what you can learn from this, and how to apply it next time. For now, it doesn't sound productive to try to reunite with him. Try to leave it alone, tolerate it being over.

When you''re ready, when you've let go, you'll feel better enought to find someone new.

[Kuervo]

ok if hes gonna treat you like crap then hes not even worth your time. move on with your life youll find someone better then him.

[raiders rule]

Forget him, he has forgotten you so you should do the same!;)

[Manifest Destiny]

Forget him, he has forgotten you so you should do the same!;)

Um. I never said he's forgotten me. :rolleyes:
He calls me names behind my back.

[DarkWingedAngel]

well he did move on so don't u think u should to

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Um. I never said he's forgotten me. :rolleyes:
He calls me names behind my back.

Um.... DUH! That's worse than forgetting you! I can't see why you'd even be remotely attracted to someone like that!

[Manifest Destiny]

well he did move on so don't u think u should to
I'm not sure calling me names would be moving on from me but whatever.


ThatCanadianGuy:
everyone says that. I guess it's odd because he was the first one i loved and everything. I find my self moving on from him alot, but somehow i jump right back.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

You keep rationalizing these sorta things; nobody ELSE would ever have a second thought about this guy. How old are you? If this is your first "love" then it definitely was NOT love! You're probably attracted to him, at our age we shouldn't let hormones and this perfect "idea" of relationships (and how they're SUPPOSED to work) blind us into thinking that these short (and often stupid) teen relationships really won't mean a thing to us later in life. You're letting this guy take control of your life and there is NO reason for it. You need to FORGET him; he's forgotten you, he'll never want you back (unless he gets desperate, but then only ONE thing will be on his mind if you know what I mean) so YOU shouldn't want to EVER get back together with him. EVER!

I can't say this enough. Stop trying to make light of the situation in your OWN mind. Whenever you feel like you want to "be with him again" just THINK. Think about this whole situation from a detached perspective devoid of emotions. He says TERRIBLE things about you behind your back. He calls you names. He has NO respect for you. Do you really want a guy like that, just because your were a little "attracted" to him (no, I'd definitely NOT call him a "first love". You should look at him as a failed first relationship, learn from the mistake of choosing a guy like that, and MOVE ON. MOVE ON MOVE ON MOVE ON!!!!) no matter how much you want to try and think about the "love" you shared you need to realize that it was ONLY you. He never had any love for you, only lust (i.e. wanted to get in your pants) if he even had a shred of decency and actually DID love you, then even AFTER you guys broke up he wouldn't say horrible things about you or call you names.

[confused99]

the best thing for u to do is to move on. believe me i know how hard it is. i went out w/ this girl for 10 1/2 months and it ended up w/ her cheatin on me and it got ugly and evry week or soo she provokes me to get pissed at her or w/e. i will tell u from experience it may be soooo dam hard to get ovr someone but if they are gonna treat u like tht no matter how much u wish thy didnt its better for u to move on. and whn u move on u will meet more guys who will treat u rite and will be better for u. i know tht feelin of bein alone and depressd but once u need to get ovr him u and will be soo much more happier. it took me 2 months to reach tht stage, it may be shorter for u, but u will reach it. w.e u do DONT CALL HIM NAMES, tht makes things worse for u and the same thing w/ gettin back at him. block him on AIM or myspace or w/e u have and just hang w/ ur friends more and try to make new ones. the main thing for me to move on was