extreme jealousy/paranoid/insecure

[lxl]

i have what people would like to call "best friend" (i just consider them as friends, you know the ones that acutally care about you) and i go through this crisis like almost every week
it always seem like my best friend has other friends who are more important than i am, and i just feel jealousy and insecure... and im also paranoid that im gonna lose this friendship
even though my friend loves me very much i feel like my friend is not so much interested in my friendship and moving on
i dont know but all these unnecessary paranoid thoughts and jealousy are just making me frustrated and stressed.... i shouldn't really care this much about such things
im not sure but this may be some psychiatic problem? but i really want some help right now...

[BlackenedSilver]

I have the kinda the same thing! I just feel like everytime people go talk in private its about me and how they want to kick me out the group.
I have always been like that, always afraid Im missing something. But it has been made worse by my friend kicking people out of the group and I think im next.
I agree with what lithium chain said, just tell them now you feel but be sure to talk t them about it not wait until you have an argument and thn bring it up! Thats a bad idea!
Hope this helps!
xx

[hobo]

i have the same thing. i don't think my best friend who i've known for eight years even likes me :( but i know he does, otherwise he wouldn't hang out with me. and yeah, i feel like groups and friends pretend to like me but talk shit about me behind my back. not sure what to do though. good luck on whatever you choose :)

[Oblivion]

Happens to me too.
I talked to one of my friends about it,
and she said i was really a great friend
and there really isnt anything to worry about