im confused about 2 boys

[kerry]

Well i am going out with this boy Mark but while on msn with my friend Toni (girl). She told me he friend Matt fancied me and she put up a pic of him on her display pic and i thort he was cute from what she showed me ....
Also my bf is drifting away from me so what do you think ?
i love my bf and also love this boy who fancies me
what should i do ?

[Gumleaf]

so this guy who likes you only knows you through the internet? if thats the case i wouldn't be leaving your current bf for him. in most cases online relationships don't work out and i think you'll cause more hurt to yourself and to the others involved if you do get involved.

[kerry]

so this guy who likes you only knows you through the internet? if thats the case i wouldn't be leaving your current bf for him. in most cases online relationships don't work out and i think you'll cause more hurt to yourself and to the others involved if you do get involved.

okay thanks for you help and reply :D

[Rutherford The Brave]

You need to do what you think is right. Do you go to the guy who has loved you and has been dating you for some time. Or do you go to the guy who has been eying you from a distance, who's main goal is indeed to pull you away from your current boyfriend. Do whats right, I'm sure you'll figure it out kerry.

[kerry]

You need to do what you think is right. Do you go to the guy who has loved you and has been dating you for some time. Or do you go to the guy who has been eying you from a distance, who's main goal is indeed to pull you away from your current boyfriend. Do whats right, I'm sure you'll figure it out kerry.

:wub: I think i will pick my boyfriend as i wanna be with him more ! :wub:

[byee]

Golly, Kerry, you got a case of adolescence real bad!

Listen, it's only at 13 can you immediately 'love' someone based only a pic! Maybe it's just the word you're using, but i think what you're saying is that you FEEL intensely, it doesn't take much to stir you up. That's hormones for you!

It's OK to enjoy all that, but it's also probably a good thing to recognize it for what it is, that overwhelming rush of puberty. So, like most things that happen inside, it might be best to keep it in there and try to control it and not DO anything. People often don't make very good judgements when they're overpowered by 'It'.

So, it's not so much about choosing b'twn Mark and Matt (like 2 flavors of ice cream!), but maybe being open to getting to know them casually, nothing really intense, and see what they're like, see how guys are different from eachother and what (other than their appearance) appeals to you.

[ShatteredWings]

waitwait wait, im agreeing with sam her, you love a guy by his pic?....:?:

i don't think an online relationship is a good idea..if your drifting away from your first bf (u said his name is mark?), then maybe its time 2be friends..but don't just start dating a guy who u don't even know..

[DarkWingedAngel]

i would say go with ur natural instinct

[kerry]

girl;318092']waitwait wait, im agreeing with sam her, you love a guy by his pic?....:?:

i don't think an online relationship is a good idea..if your drifting away from your first bf (u said his name is mark?), then maybe its time 2be friends..but don't just start dating a guy who u don't even know..

Me and Mark sorted it out now ....
I am with my bf :lol: