I 'think' I might have a problem..Weird fetish..

[Skittle Flavored]

Lol, so i dunno where to put this thread, and sexuality just seems right. Ok, so story time:
My brother has a friend, lets call him Dave. So me and dave have done things in the past, very sexual things. And he really regrets them. So much that he moved out of my house, and he didnt contact anyone for a while. He's coming back into my, and my family's lives, and he's starting to hang around again. Well, me and him are hanging out like nothing ever happened. So one day, i belive it was 2 days ago, he asked me if i had any earrings. I did, and i showed him the ones i had. And he was playing video games at the time, so he asked me if i could put them in for him. So i started to put them in. One after another after another *He had 4 peircings.* and then i was finished. He ran his hands over his ears to check, and he complained about something, i forget. So i started to just kinda play with his ear, and i started to get aroused. Like, hardcore aroused. I was basiclly stroking his ear, and it turned me on.

Lol, i know the infamous question "Does that make me weird"..So im not going to ask that. Im actually more curious as to if something this weird has happened to someone else?

[george]

Well for me in a way sort of. Was at wrestling practice last year and I was wrestling this guy I like (well more like love) and I some how ended up on top of him with him look up at me, and we were like that for like 4 seconds just staring at each other then I think a girl laughed or something like that. I just got up, and we acted like nothing happened. Don't really know if you could call that "weird" but thats the only thing that I can think of :O

But either way, I'm going to answer said infamous question sorta lol Maybe when you were rubbing his ear, it reminded you of what you did with him before?

On another note, WOW you haven't been on VT in a long time :D Welcome back :)

[hobo]

i'm personally not into ears, but it seems totally normal to me. although maybe it's not that you were rubbing an ear, it's that you were rubbing HIS ear. touching/rubbing any part of somebody can be a turn on.

and also, i don't see what's so wrong about it, if no one gets hurt and you both like it , by all means stay up all night fondling each other's lobes lol. and why do we (maybe not you) consider breasts sexy, but ears nasty?

[byee]

Weird? That's a matter of opinion, I suppose. But, it def seems uncomfortable for you, perhaps b/c it brings up the memories of what you've done in the past. Whatever that was (and maybe, moreso, all the feelings) were uncomfortable, and now you're re experiencing them.

Based on that, it might be best to avoid any type of touching, b/c although touching any part of another person can be arousing, it's the memories and the feelings that get stirred up that often feel 'weird', not the activity itself.

[MrPinnick17]

Yeah your not alone. My friend T has an ear fetish bad. It seems like it doesn't matter who it is but he always grabs ahold of both your ears and rubs his head on your back. It's really weird, sometimes I don't know if he's joking or if it's for real. But It does feel good to have your ears touched, haha.

[MoveAlong]

oh yeah, you're not alone, that's tons normal.
Many people are aroused, hardcore aroused, by different things (you know, same old advice). I read this one gay site and they were all like "oh what is your weird fetish?" and some included armpits, the sound of a man swallowing, happy trails, etc. Whatever floats your boat (and there's TONS of different things :P)

I haven't had anything like that happen to me, although I've never had any sexual experiences.
By the way, welcome back to the forums! :D

[jma94]

Yeah, that's normal. I've never had that experience though. But, he didn't care that you did that? Because of what you said happened, he didn't care that you were rubbing his ears? Because that's a common turn-on type spot.

[Sugaree]

It's more then likely a sexual fetish. It's all normal. Everyone has some type of turn on and you obviously have this one. It doesn't make you wierd.

[Mikel14]

yah i remember my old girl friend nibbled on my ear and i got turned on

[byee]

Just as a couple of FYI's, ears are erogenous, they feel sexy when touched by a lot of people. There are nerve ending there, that when aroused, feel sexual.

And for something to be a 'fetish', it needs to be present for sexual arousal and gratification to occur, it is a mandatory thing that is typically 'non sexual' and 'non erogenous' by definition, like shoes, or boogers, or whatever.

[MoveAlong]

Just as a couple of FYI's, ears are erogenous, they feel sexy when touched by a lot of people. There are nerve ending there, that when aroused, feel sexual.

And for something to be a 'fetish', it needs to be present for sexual arousal and gratification to occur, it is a mandatory thing that is typically 'non sexual' and 'non erogenous' by definition, like shoes, or boogers, or whatever.

although this is all true, a note is that is the technical term for fetish. "Fetish" is used more casually than what its actual definition states.

[byee]

Maybe, Zach, but why not use the term correctly? Besides being a more accurate description of what's going on, it doesn't make it sound pathological or 'weird'.

[MoveAlong]

Maybe, Zach, but why not use the term correctly?

because you're not going to change the all porn sites out there that use the word "out of context" and it's easier to use the word fetish out of context, because "turn on" sounds so unsexy and there are no other words for "something non-conventional that turns you on/you like but may or may not be a body part"

[ZombieCrunch]

That sounds rather normal to me.
Its just another way that your body reacts to things.
I think I may have an S&M fetish.
I don't consider myself " Abnormal " Because I find Whips and handcuffs exiting.
I just consider myself Kinky ;).

[Mr. Smithers]

We all have different turn ons. Feet, hair, eyes, breasts. So yes its normal.

[Requin]

Everyone's got a fetish of some sort. Feet seems to be a rareity i find, but everyone's different. We can't tell you whats right and wrong because there isn't one. SO don't get too worried.

[xSEBBIE]

You should have someone lick your ear lobes, drives me nuts. No idea why though. I dont think it makes you weird at all, you probably just enjoy the contact between you two. =]

[xSEBBIE]

And ive got a bit of a fetish for feet, stubble and body hair. Don't ask me why i don't know lol

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