my bf asked me to.......

[DarkWingedAngel]

my bf asked me to have sex agen and i want to but i was just freaked out because he almost got me pregnant and i don't wan't to have a kid just yet how do i tell him that i don't wan't to reight now with out him breaking up with me because i realy love him and he is realy cute to what should i say to him

[Hyper]

Heres an idea don't have sex if your still a complete child..

Or atleast get some good condoms...

[LeRoy_Fan]

Just remember, it's your body.

You have the ultimate decision in what you will allow him to do.

The best way to think about it is: Are you willing to take the risk of getting pregnant? OR, Are you willing to take care of a child?

If so, go ahead. If not, then don't.

[DarkWingedAngel]

ok but how do i tell him i don't want to

[byee]

How about "I don't want to have sex." It's clear, straight to the point, and easy to understand.


If you're worried that he won't accept this and won't be your b/f, regardless of how cute he is or how much you think you like him, he's a scoundrel and not worth your time.

You should be liked for who you are as a person, not b/c you give sex, and be respected for that. Do not ever compromise yourself just to avoid rejection. it's not worth it and you will feel lousy about yourself later.

[DarkWingedAngel]

i don't think he would break up with me but i just don't want it to happen

[byee]

I would like to think he wouldn't, either. Respect is really the cornerstone of any worthwhile relationship. If he would break up with you for not doing something he wanted, he's very selfish and very disrespectful.

"I don't want to have sex (but I really like you!)."

[LeRoy_Fan]

I agree with IAmSam here.

If he's anyone worth keeping, he shouldn't care that you don't want to do something you aren't comfortable with.

[NextToNormal]

i say you just tell him plain and simple, "look, i really dont want to have sex with you after the pregnancy scare from the last time. and if you really love me, you will accept that." or something along those lines. if your bf does respect and love you, he will be understanding because its your body not his.

[DarkWingedAngel]

i say you just tell him plain and simple, "look, i really dont want to have sex with you after the pregnancy scare from the last time. and if you really love me, you will accept that." or something along those lines. if your bf does respect and love you, he will be understanding because its your body not his.

ok that helps alot thanx

[kerry]

Talk to him... Say i dont really want sex because last time i could have been pregnant and we should wait until we use a condom and both want to do it

[Underground_Network]

I completely agree with what everyone has said, but you may also want to bring up the fact that sex is most enjoyable when both people are ready and both people "want it". Explain to him that if you have it now you won't enjoy it as much, and that he won't get as much pleasure out of it because of that. Even if it is slightly untrue, it will really get him thinking, and is a surefire way of getting him thinking more about you than himself. If he really loves you, he'll stay with you if you say no. A boyfriend who is just with you for sex isn't much of a boyfriend.

[DarkWingedAngel]

ok i will tell him that like tomorrow or something

[alexander]

you should ask him to wear a condom or u could were a sperm sponge it killz sperm inside of you

[liveandlearn]

Hes a jerk who dosent deserve you if he breaks up with you over sex

[RaisingSand]

If you don't want to have sex, then don't have sex. It's your body and you have the right to tell him no.
If he does break up with you; it's going to hurt like hell, and you will be really upset for a while. But ultimately know that it was probably the best thing for YOU in the long run; you deserve somebody who is going to respect you, your body and your decisions.
Just do what is right for you, sweetie. :)

[Gumleaf]

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