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curiousashley87
July 3rd, 2008, 03:28 PM
Hi I am writing this because I am very concerned for my older sister who does not know I am doing this, and I want advice before I do anything stupid...

Well here it goes: A couple days back my older sister who is 21 and I were home alone enjoying the peace and quiet. Well my sister was on the internet, (which is not odd) and was being secretive of what she was doing. Well when she went to take a shower since she had something to do later that evening I got on the internet for abit and saw what my sister had been doing. -Sighs- she had been downloading pics of girls my age...but they were nude. It was then I realized that the air in the room smelled funny and I realized my sister probably was masturbating or something. I looked at the pictures, and well, it clicked.

Please help me because I am not sure what to do or say to my sister. She does not know I know her secret or that I am writing this. I would really appreciate the help, so please help me help my sister.

Bobby
July 3rd, 2008, 03:30 PM
Well she probably wouldn't be happy to know that you were snooping...and you wouldn't want the sex offender title put on her would you? What she's doing isn't really right, but it's not hurting you. So I would leave it be.

george
July 3rd, 2008, 03:32 PM
Like Bobby said, I'd say just let her be. Its not affecting you in anyway is it?

alex_93
July 3rd, 2008, 04:14 PM
wait i don't get this
The air smelled funny????
smelled like what???
How did u find out what she was doing on the internet???
normally when people are up to dodgy stuff they delete the history.
Sorry but I'm jsut a bit confused

byee
July 3rd, 2008, 11:08 PM
Yeah, I'm with them here.

I'd forget the whole thing, personally. She's 21, she's entitled to privacy, you weren't authorized to see what she was looking at, and you're jumping to conclusions. This is a recipe for pure familial disaster!

Judge your sister on the way she treats you, on your relationship prior to this unfortunate incident. Without further info, what you saw or what you're concluding is irrelevant. And you should not pursue this any further.

kerry
July 4th, 2008, 02:12 AM
If it is not affecting you ..... you should let her have a life !

Oblivion
July 4th, 2008, 02:20 AM
Yeah, I'm with them here.

I'd forget the whole thing, personally. She's 21, she's entitled to privacy, you weren't authorized to see what she was looking at, and you're jumping to conclusions. This is a recipe for pure familial disaster!

Judge your sister on the way she treats you, on your relationship prior to this unfortunate incident. Without further info, what you saw or what you're concluding is irrelevant. And you should not pursue this any further.

I agree.

I do advise talking to her though, and making sure she realizes it is illegal to look at under age porn.

george
July 4th, 2008, 03:07 AM
I agree.

I do advise talking to her though, and making sure she realizes it is illegal to look at under age porn.
Uuuhhh wasn't her sister 21?

Oblivion
July 4th, 2008, 03:09 AM
Yes, but she is looking at girls under the age of 18

Child pornography

Illegal

george
July 4th, 2008, 03:20 AM
"she had been downloading pics of girls my age.."

Ah ok, forgot about that. Where would she get child pornography though......

But yeah, illegal.

Oblivion
July 4th, 2008, 03:22 AM
^^ Well actually i assumed the OP is under 18, if they are over 18 then at least it isn't illegal


Sadly, many people post child porn on the internet, and there is nothing anyone can do about it

george
July 4th, 2008, 03:26 AM
^^ Well actually i assumed the OP is under 18, if they are over 18 then at least it isn't illegal


Sadly, many people post child porn on the internet, and there is nothing anyone can do about it
You know, when you think about it, that kinda doesn't really make sense lol
Its ok if you -18 But its NOT ok if your 18+ eh Maybe its just me.

raiders rule
July 4th, 2008, 03:27 AM
I wouldnt say anything but what she is doing is illegal anyone under 18 in pornography is illegal, like that other guy said u wouldnt want your sister to be known as a sex offender.

hobo
July 4th, 2008, 03:49 AM
Its ok if you -18 But its NOT ok if your 18+ eh Maybe its just me.


its illegal to look at any porn when youre under 18,plus i think even underage people can get arrested on child porn charges lol. theres one story of someone who took a topless picture of herself and posted it on myspace, arrested for possession and distributiomn of child porn (she was 16).

Oblivion
July 4th, 2008, 03:50 AM
You know, when you think about it, that kinda doesn't really make sense lol
Its ok if you -18 But its NOT ok if your 18+ eh Maybe its just me.

Well actually if you are 13 and looking at child porn then its double illegal, because

a) Your not supposed to look at porn until your 18
and
b) Child porn is illegal

alex_93
July 5th, 2008, 07:10 AM
yeah but cause your under 16 you don't get as harsh a sentence...I know its twisted.