Two questions

[Lord C]

Well, me and my friend were having a playfight on my bed and he was on top of me and basically got me in the rock the cradle position. Then he kind of realised that it was kind of gay and it got quite awkward, but he stayed where he was and then kissed me, on the lips. Then it kind of just lead to him pulling down my boxers and we masturbated each other. I've read loads of other posts on here, and yes it's normal and it doesn't mean I'm gay but the thing is that he wanted to do it again, and I didn't. Do you think it'll be awkward now? He is my best friend and I don't want it to be awkward.

Also, another question that is asked here alot. I masturbate guys:girls on a 80:20 ratio and have doen for maybe a year. Does this mean I'm gay?

[Sugaree]

You're not gay if you masturbate to guys. It's just natural curiosity. It would be awkward if this situation happened with your friend again in most other cases. I would recommend not doing it because it could ruin your friendship.

[Lord C]

Zing. Knew I made the right decision.

[Becool]

like said above dont do it unless you both are ok with it and ready

[addikt7]

don't worry, i have those same ratios, but even more to the guy side. its just normal to be curious.
and for the first situation, i agree with everything thats been said.

[MrPinnick17]

It's all about being comfortable. You said you jerk off guys 80% of the time, maybe lay down some rules if you want, none of the kissing thing and keep it strictly platonic and go from there. If you just don't wanna do it at all let him know, but you know we all have feelings so don't be a jerk about it.

[MoveAlong]

even straight men sometimes like to masturbate with other straight men or even bi or gay friends, just for the fun or pleasure. That IS normal and doesn't make you gay.

Whether your attracted to guys, emotionally, and physically, is the question - just because you have more experiences with guys doesn't make you gay. Are you attracted to men? If not, you're probably not gay. Do you like women? If you like women, you are not gay.

Yeah it may be awkward. But I can't predict how he will react...although if it does get weird, maybe talk with him and try to make sure you stay friends.

[Lord C]

Oh yeah I like girls, alot.

I did tell him that I didn't want to do it again, so there's no need to lay down rules, they're already set.

[Becool]

good you and your friend seem close i hope you still remain friends

[kerry]

how old are u