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Adam
October 12th, 2005, 12:04 PM
Hello everyone, im having a relationship with a girl i met on MSN, we both love eachother and everything, but i live in England and she lives in Canada :?
I'm not sure what to do though as the chances are we will never meet up :( . What would you do?

Anonymous
October 12th, 2005, 12:08 PM
its a difficult thing, long term relationship, the only person hu knows the answer is u, if u love enough to try at the lont term thing, then do it.

Adam
October 12th, 2005, 12:10 PM
Thanks :) we'll give long term a go :) wish me luck :P

Anonymous
October 12th, 2005, 12:47 PM
good luck

kivaa
October 12th, 2005, 02:03 PM
for all you know, its an old man...so i dont think netluv is a good thing :roll:

Anonymous
October 12th, 2005, 02:06 PM
have u seen a pic of her, or talked on webcam?

Adam
October 12th, 2005, 02:15 PM
we do webcam chat all the time so im sure its ok :)

Kev*
October 12th, 2005, 04:24 PM
dont hav a long distance thing coz i will neva qwork

Englishkid
October 12th, 2005, 05:24 PM
hmm seems unlikely that long distance could work unless your willing to your like 18 to fly to canada hehe.

Elokyn
October 12th, 2005, 05:49 PM
now...I'm not trying to discourage the relationship at all but I am gonna tell you my personal experience...If you're weak or unstable in your relationship you probably shouldn't read it :P

I met a guy online..he was so sweet and so loving. He lived in Washington..I'm in Texas..well we finally met up...he moved to Texas things were awesome..for about a month.

Long story short he ended up mentally and physically abusing me and he raped me....so yeah I'm not too "pro-internet relationships" because you NEVER know how the person is...like I coulda swore I knew him inside and out and I had no clue....
Like..people can do amazingly deceitful things with computers now..I have a friend who can record other people on webcam and play it back on his and it looks JUST like I'm watching another person....I'm not saying at all this is how it is I just want you to have the warning.

There is NOTHING wrong with a long distance relationship as long as you see each other and talk and stuff..but..it's the internet part I have a problem with...when you've never even met...that makes it scary.

Just be careful PLEASE be careful.

Adam
October 12th, 2005, 05:52 PM
Im sorry to hear about that Elokyn, i will be careful :) promise

Elokyn
October 12th, 2005, 06:30 PM
<Request move to Relationship forum?>

That's good, and take things slow also. Don't get too attached too fast

kolte
October 12th, 2005, 07:17 PM
request movement to the Relationship fourm seconded

Pink-Floyd
October 12th, 2005, 08:25 PM
Hello everyone, im having a relationship with a girl i met on MSN, we both love eachother and everything, but i live in England and she lives in Canada :?
I'm not sure what to do though as the chances are we will never meet up :( . What would you do?


I cant answer that because I wouldn tmeet some over the Computer

teencrazykid
October 13th, 2005, 02:52 AM
now...I'm not trying to discourage the relationship at all but I am gonna tell you my personal experience...If you're weak or unstable in your relationship you probably shouldn't read it :P

I met a guy online..he was so sweet and so loving. He lived in Washington..I'm in Texas..well we finally met up...he moved to Texas things were awesome..for about a month.

Long story short he ended up mentally and physically abusing me and he raped me....so yeah I'm not too "pro-internet relationships" because you NEVER know how the person is...like I coulda swore I knew him inside and out and I had no clue....
Like..people can do amazingly deceitful things with computers now..I have a friend who can record other people on webcam and play it back on his and it looks JUST like I'm watching another person....I'm not saying at all this is how it is I just want you to have the warning.

There is NOTHING wrong with a long distance relationship as long as you see each other and talk and stuff..but..it's the internet part I have a problem with...when you've never even met...that makes it scary.

Just be careful PLEASE be careful.

Sorry that happened to you Nykole. :cry:

Yes, be careful. My cuz was 17 and she was talking to a guy who passed himself off as 21. She found out that he was 40 years old. Just things like that...so be careful

Kev*
October 13th, 2005, 11:34 AM
you dont know what types of people have internet relation ships lik that

Adam
October 13th, 2005, 12:29 PM
Thanks all for your help, im pretty sure she is who she says she is, i have about six of her friends msn addys and they all are in the right age group ect, gunna try a long distance long term relationship :)

Kev*
October 13th, 2005, 12:32 PM
[REQUEST MOVE]

ejebay91
October 13th, 2005, 09:46 PM
good luck meeting up , off to canada :shock:

fdsgfg55465
October 20th, 2005, 08:58 PM
have fun.......

Peanut Butter
October 20th, 2005, 09:11 PM
request move to relationship

Spifyrifical14
October 21st, 2005, 04:57 AM
You can never tell. There was this one guy i met on a school chatroom (i go to an online school), i also met his sister they both seemed really cool, when i met them he "was" really cool and nice but his sister turned out to be a total biach

Kev*
October 22nd, 2005, 08:52 AM
[REQUEST MOVE TO RELATIONSHIPS]

kolte
October 22nd, 2005, 10:16 AM
ok ok quiet bitchen, I'm moving it n.n